My friend is in a custody battle over their only child. The father of the child has been telling the chidl what to say when they to court. my frined had phones recorded with him saying that. The child also tell her mom t what they tell her when she goes to visit.
I need to find some is infomation on new mexico laws regarding influcening the child.
IMy next question is can she reduce the vistations that he gets and where can i look at the info for that
2007-01-25 06:00:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
Yes he can have his visitation rights either taken away or be ordered supervised visitation. It happened to my ex - he was trashing me about child support to my kids to turn them against me and as soon as they complained I filed a petition and he was ordered to undergo psychological evaluation and supervised visits. Needless to say he didnt do either and now hasnt seen his kids since last February. It is called parental alientation and it is cause to lose rights to your children.
2007-01-25 07:20:24 · answer #1 · answered by Tink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad for the child, bad for the case, bad in social ethical conduct, bad for everyone involved, bad for everyone everywhere?
Any time you are facing a good/bad judgment you can and should always break it up into more detail. If the fight was over custody of a rolex watch we would not need to consider the child. The child may not want to take sides. But if the couching is real, i.e. the mother leaves her drugs out on the counter top, then is it wrong? When both parents put the child first they have something in common to work with. A good idea.
If the child is manipulated to hurt the other parent, this is bad, using someone and particularly using someone from a position of trust is wrong. So if the parent is trying to show events as they actually are which may effect the decision, this is different.
Moral judgments when made, should need to be made, otherwise we should reserve judgment. They should also be confined to a specific event and time and not spread out. My two cents.
2007-01-25 06:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by Ron H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so wrong in so many ways! You never use a child against a one of their parents! This is totally disgusting and the one doing it should have their parental rights taken away! This is how you get a child to grow up with anger and resentments! I am going through a ugly divorce right now but I will never in a million years talk badly about my soon to be ex! I will always ask how his mom is doing and tell him to listen to her and be good to her because she also loves you like I do! Children are so damm precious they should never be put into conflict like this!
2007-01-25 06:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by mrjamfy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the child needs a childs ADVOCATE
judges are not stupid
they know that parents try to influence the child
the judge knows how to ask questions and to read between the lines
remember everything EVERYTHING is on record and later on that child may want to see why he is where and with whom he is
2007-01-25 06:09:09 · answer #4 · answered by caretaker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋