During "that time" my wife refuses intimacy, I have told her that it is her responsability to satisfy my needs and if she can't take care of me I would find a woman on the side who could, do you think this is wrong
2007-01-25 05:54:50 · 27 answers · asked by maxexposure2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just tell her it doesn't gross you out during that week and she should be fine. There's nothing wrong with that week, its still all good. Just use a dark towel.
2007-01-25 06:00:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, it can be painful for her during that time of the month. And if you can't go a few days without getting any, you need help. It isn't like she can help that she has periods. You could always self-pleasure. Does she refuse inimacy at other times of the month? And no, it is not her responsibility to satisfy your needs, she has a right to say no- what you are doing is forcing her to commit sexual acts so you won't cheat on her...sounds like a form of rape to me.
2007-01-25 06:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by bored@w0rk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first of all, don't be such an a** about it and the way you tell her. Sex during that time of the month actually helps with cramps and helps the blood (non-gross way) to flow better. Plus sometimes the woman gets a better "O" that way. Explain the way you feel about the situation, but not so rudely. Some women just feel gross. Or you could suggest having sex in the shower, considering that water sometimes stops the blood flow for a certain amount of time.
2007-01-25 06:23:04 · answer #3 · answered by lessard_family 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy crap are you wrong!!! What a husband you are. When that time of the month rolls around, it isn't pleasant for us you know! Theres a lot of cramping, bloating which makes us feel fat and of course the obvious...blood. Are you insane to push her like that?! Aparently you don't respect her enough to abide by her wishes. It's just a week, can't wait that long?! I mean at least instead of pushing, suggest that she give you oral. Or wait, here is something better....talk to her!! Sit her down and tell her that the mess won't bother you at all (which I am sure she is worried about) and suggest doing it in the shower (or when she is in there, pop in and start the process) and that you love her and desire her so much that you don't want to go without , ALSO appologize for the hurtful things you've said! This hasn't ever been a problem for me, I love that my husband wants me all the time.
2007-01-25 06:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
We have no problem with this since Islam forbids intimacy during that time of the month as well the women do not fast nor pray until this time is over and they shower fresh clean.
2007-01-25 09:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by samah a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 02:27:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult for a man to understand what goes on during that time of the month other than what you see or hear. This is the one week out of month where you just can't concentrate on intercourse and though you have needs to be met, ask yourself if you're meeting hers? I mean, instead of focusing on what she isn't doing for you within that one week try doing for her.
For instance we love hot baths, and any type of relaxation. Just cut her some slack and don't make comments like you'll find someone else because all women have cycles and you won't be gaining anything out of doing something like sleeping with someone else all while your wife is at home sick.
2007-01-25 06:05:18 · answer #7 · answered by bettyspagettii 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You've got to be kidding, right? Responsibility? Who are you and what makes you so special to think so cavemanish? Your responsibility is to make sure she's comfortable and loved through this time of the month. Most women go through different phases during this time and some prefer not to be bothered. If you could part your mouth to say that you'll find someone else to take care of your needs then maybe you should hit the bricks.
2007-01-25 06:04:04 · answer #8 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You have got another post about you having a threesome with you wife and her girlfriend and both getting preggo.You should have other things on your mind if that was the case besides intimacy with your wife who wants a divorce.You are full of s hit!!
2007-01-25 07:58:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you are both wrong. You mostly for even making those awful threats! How is she supposed to feel when she is willing to have sex with you??? You really think she's going to find you desirable after making comments like that? Wrong. On her part it's not so unusual BUT if you play your cards right (which you haven't) you might be able to get her into the shower with you and do your thing there...less messy and she might not think about it.
2007-01-25 06:09:18 · answer #10 · answered by Susan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with women from both schools of thought. It just plain "grosses out" women like your wife, and in that frame of mind romance ain't happenin despite her "responsibilities". Interesting view on that by the way. Not many women let men get away with that type of thinking anymore.
2007-01-25 06:51:50 · answer #11 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋