My son and his girlfriend (both 12 years old, first love) got into some trouble. There was a note sent to her by him and her dad found it. (I don't know what it said) They will not let her speak to him anymore, and when he wants to call her, he has to lie about who he is. I told him that he should never have to lie about who he is, but he said he doesn't care. I think that they should break up, due to the fact that they can't even talk on the phone without lying about it. We just don't condone behavior like this. We also believe that this girl has more "experience" than she lets on to have. We don't want our son to get hurt.
2007-01-25 05:34:06 · 9 answers · asked by BRIDGIE74 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
you cant make them break hes only 12 he will have another girl friend in a week but i wouldnt tell him he cant see or speak to her he will want to do it all the more
2007-01-25 05:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by andrea.barrett36 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find out what the note said because your his mother. But yes as a girl that is 18 and about to become a mother make them break up. It's for the best for both of them. 12 year old girls can get pregnant you know. And 12 year old boys can get traped in that. I myself am about to have a son in about 6 weeks and I'll be damned if my son gets trapped in that!
2007-01-25 14:41:26 · answer #2 · answered by Camerons Mama07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have the right to know what the note said don't you? I would ask. As far as breaking up..they are only 12 and not really together anyway.
2007-01-25 15:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, you shouldn't even be letting your son "date" at 12 years old anyway! Put your foot down and tell him he can't date until he is 16. This will save a lot of problems. Have him focus on school instead of her. I would call the dad and try to find out what the note said.
2007-01-25 14:04:05 · answer #4 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You're condoning the behavior by letting him call her. 12 is WAYYYYYY too young!!!! First, I would demand to see the note he sent so that you can punish him appropriately. And if this girl is only 12 and you think she has "experience", please keep your boy away from her!! Sounds like trouble to me!
2007-01-25 13:57:35 · answer #5 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
12 is really too young i couldn't even date at that age you should tell him that he can date when he turns 15 or 16
2007-01-25 14:52:13 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ i L0VE U S0 MUCH ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the harder you push to break them up the closer you are going to make them. plus if they have to hide the relationship from you you know they will they are already hiding phone calls
2007-01-25 14:39:10 · answer #7 · answered by slynswope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make them break up.
2007-01-25 13:40:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make them break up, they shouldn't even be dating.
2007-01-25 14:20:55 · answer #9 · answered by Donna S 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋