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Ok, This is my first time (hopefully the last time) to ask about stuff like love.


I need help.


Ok, I never been in love, as in, never involve in relationship.

But recently I realise that I am sort of liking this person, and now he's asking me what do I think of him.


Is not that I am shy, the fact is that I am not a shy person, I’m just introvert.


It's a huge difference between shy and introvert.


Anyway, he ask again,


"Do you see me as someone you could like more than a friend?"

"Or do you see me as a friend"

"Or someone you would fear?"


Of course I don't see him as someone who is scary, I do wanted to say that I could see him like more than a friend, but still, I want to keep my ego LOL

How can I reply him in another way?

I want to give him a more special and deep in thoughts kind of answer.

Any of you can help?

2007-01-25 05:21:33 · 1 answers · asked by Sam 2 in Social Science Other - Social Science

1 answers

Hmmm...it sounds like you want him to respect you and not see you as silly or shallow. It also sounds like he really wants to know where your relationship is going--probably, he likes you. It sounds like you both are on the same page--that's good!

How you answer depends on your personality, your style. I am also introverted, so I understand at least a little bit. I don't like to just expose myself emotionally to people all at once--I like them to have to slowly get to know me, to earn the right to know me more deeply. Maybe you're like that. I, personally, would answer him by looking him in the eyes, smiling, and saying, "I'd like to see where things go." I think he would get the message, but it would be more subtle than just saying, "I like you so much!" Or you could turn the question around back to him: "What do you think?" Or maybe you'd feel best saying, "I think our relationship has potential."

Good luck, and I hope those give you some ideas. :)

2007-01-25 05:53:49 · answer #1 · answered by kacey 5 · 0 0

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