My fiance cheated on me with my sister (twice) that is what he says. I found out about it by coming across it on msn messanger that my sister left up. she was talking to one of her friends. We all sat down and talked he is saying it never happened and she says it did. She has details and he is still saying it never happened. I love him and Have a baby on the way what do i do. please help
2007-01-25 04:57:30 · 29 answers · asked by What to do when things get rough 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like he should probably marry your sister. Is she younger? More attractive?
Leave him. You deserve better....
2007-01-25 05:18:33 · answer #1 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You Poor Girl! Please get them both together and get this sorted out! You need to know the Truth, and if indeed it is true and they have cheated you need to know why they did this to you. If your Sister says it happened and he says no, get them together in front of you and demand to know the Truth. You have a baby on the way and can do without this Stress. I hope for all your Sakes it never happened. The decision though would have to be yours as there is a baby involved. I would Dump him if it is True I know it will be hard because you love him but he will only do it again if not with your sister someone else! You must Find out and Good Luck.
2007-01-25 05:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by maria t 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
have a 3-some
2007-01-25 05:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be strong and yes DUMP HIM.
I am sorry I know you have a baby on the way. He is lying to you. I know how much you love him but you need your own space. The extra hands will come in handy when you have a baby tho but unless you want to keep him around for decoration until you get strong enough to stand on your own. ... Blood is thicker than water, have a conversation with your sister alone, and then listen to your gut.
If you believe it happened with her and I think you do, it can happen with anyone and you need to consider your good health for you and for your baby.
His promiscuity is not a good health practice for either of you not with the diseases out there. You can talk to him about this as well. Please listen to your heart.
It would help if you pray about it too. Its hard especially with the baby on the way but you need what is best for you, stability when a baby is growing is important, as this is the values they adopt even in their earliest stages (its just my opinion).
Good luck and may God show you the light in the right direction.
2007-01-25 05:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a LIAR. Your sister isn't lying.
Your fiance doesn't love you he was obviously in lust with you not in love with you when he asked you to marry him. Now he is lusting after your sister. Don't you see something wrong with this picture??
Your fiance is a cheater and liar. You don't need somebody like that in your life. He will just on you again and again. You should do what you feel in your heart.
Its a tough situation now that you have a baby on the way.
2007-01-25 05:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, it happened once? My personal opinion, if he will go there with your sister, he will go there with someone you don't know or even a friend. Twice? Okay, does your sister dislike him? What will be her reason for lying? Also, it sounds like your sister is no good. Family does not do that with each other. Forgiveness is God but not stupidity. Make your peace but keep your distance.
2007-01-25 05:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor....drop him like a hot potato.
It was your SISTER for crying outloud. They both broke the code of trust in the deepest way.
Baby on the way or not, if he'll do this with your sister, then he'll do it again, with her or someone else. He's a player.
I think he's lying simply because, what does your sister have to lose by telling you the truth?
I know you love him, but the hard, cold truth is, that you should love YOURSELF more.
2007-01-25 05:16:15 · answer #7 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow, your sister Riley Hannah is extremely beautiful!!!!! Screw that Jack** Jake or despite his call is, she would be in a position to do greater powerful than a lieng cheating Duesh!!!!! I wager that there are human beings lining as much as pass along with her!!! This must be destiny, there is somebody greater powerful available for her.... purely remind Riley Hannah of all the undesirable issues he did! =]
2016-11-01 06:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by dewulf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should leave him, and you tell your sister that she is a piece of crap for sleeping with your fiance. I would suggest to stay single and make him pay for the baby! I wouldn't suggest to go through with the marriage just because I know that he will cheat again and again, and next time it might be something who is not related to you and you won't be able to see an open messenger to find out. he might even bring you some disease!
2007-01-25 05:05:24 · answer #9 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
That's a tough one. You know them both better than I do so you know who you trust more, with your head not your heart. Is your sister prone to lie??? Does she seem jealous of your relationship??? One thing for sure is that only you can sort this one out. Can you get one of them to take a polygraph test to get to the bottom of it?? Ask either of them and if they react badly then you have a fair idea who's lying!! Sorry you're in this situation and I hope you resolve it soon. For your sake it would be better if your sister is lying because then you only loose 1 person. If it's him lying then you loose 2!
2007-01-25 05:06:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Fist of all, shame on your sister. I have a sister and will never ever do this to her, I rather die first.
In any case, you should get rid of him now, because it's not a good start, get child support, because you are better off raising your child alone without this mega-loser in your life.
Also, if you can, move as far away from your sister, and when you meet someone else never introduce them to one another.
2007-01-25 05:05:12 · answer #11 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋