Uping interest in my sex life??

Question

me and my husband have great sexx..wonderful love making(when i can get in the mood)...the only thing is...is that i dont have much of a drive...he has all the drive in the world but i just cant get in the mood..is there something i can try w/out seeing a doctor?

Answer 1

this is what i do if i am taking a shower or bath i play with myself a little enough to get me arouse by the time we both get to bed i am wanting some but the best time is morning you have all that energy, just think is all in your mind have sexual fantasies during the day while you at work think of sex is all****

Answer 2

Unfortunately your situation is very common. While I don't know either your husband or yourself, I will stick to the basic things:

1) Men need to have sex to feel loved, women need to feel loved to have sex.

2) You need more romance to get warmed up - going out on dates or staying in alone watching that chick flick and a bottle of wine will help set the mood.

3) Try not to over exhaust yourself during the day so you are rested up for the evening.

4) Communicate with each other and be honest without fear of persecution. This is the way that you both get to know how you are feeling about each other.

5) Your husband may get sexually frustrated and feel you are punishing him not having sex. Speak to him (see #4) about how you feel about him and that you are willing, but not always into it.

Good luck.

Answer 3

OK. I know all about this from past experience. You need to go to your local healthfood store and pick up a product called Pink Yam or Horny Goat Weed. They come in capsule form and are easy to take. They do make a big difference to your sex drive and you don't need to see the Doc to get them. The only thing I will say is, give it some time to work as you have to build it up in your system, 4 or 5 days of taking them should be enough to get things started. And you may need to keep taking them to keep that increased level going.. Best of luck with it!

Answer 4

My wife is exactly the same. We have a wonderful relationship, except that she simply isn't interested in sex. Eventually, it will have a major impact on us, because my drive is absolutely relentless.

In her case, nothing has worked. You may be diffferent though. Try herbal supplements, and work on stress reduction.

Answer 5

the in user-friendly words thanks to augment your sex existence is to go away him out of it. that is glaring that if he has saved bare %. of yet another woman on a computer computer contained in the previous, then he's of direction contained in the mood, merely no longer with you. it isn't that that's demanding for him to the contact you, the reality is that he would not want to. the in user-friendly words rationalization why sexual interplay takes position between you 2 contained in the first position is because the different woman isn't contained in the mood. So truly, you're the merely correct hotel. i do not mean to sound rude and blunt yet in certain circumstances a spouse's worst enemy is "denial"

Answer 6

I'm a guy, I know how you feel, & it's embarrassing when she's lying there waiting, I want it, but can't get it "hard"! (no matter how much she tries to turn me on,)-but sometimes I gotta be in the mood too.

Answer 7

try bring another woman into it - who knows you might of always wanted to do another woman - i am sure your husband would like seeing you do another woman - i know i would - OMG i would love to see 2 women doing each other

Answer 8

Why do you have to be in the mood?

Answer 9

Nothing that I know of... Try having your genes replaced.