After your wife/gf had a baby and her body changed (I'm not talking massive weight gain, I mean stretch marks or just slight changes) did you find that you weren't as attracted to her as you were before she had a baby? If she is fit and slim, but has some stretch marks, does it bother you? No mean answers, please, just honest ones. And, no, I'm not pregnant just curious about this.
2007-01-25 04:25:23 · 14 answers · asked by Lotus 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You men all seem like wonderful husbands! You really made my day. I wish you all the best.
2007-01-25 06:02:08 · update #1
I loved her before, I loved her after! We ALL change! Love doesn't!!
2007-01-25 04:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I believe if two people are in love with one another,and the baby is here out of the love you have for one another than you learn to look over the changes. Remember that she didn't get like that by herself you helped. Also if you were really involved you would has been helping her while she was pregnant. Things like rubbing the body down with oil ect.. Well if it's to late for that then remember beauty is on the inside and if your in love love with her then that's what you should see, and focus on.
2007-01-25 12:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by russell c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think stretch marks are a sign of beauty and joy. you got them bringing a new life into the world. weight gain??? little is to be expected. i think the hardest thing is not enough time after the baby comes into the world. then comes the whole seeing eye to eye on raising the child. that usually causes the break ups. my preference is skinny and stretch marks is SEXY in my book..
i am no longer with the mother of my child because we didnt see eye to eye on raising one child and having a step child?? things are confusing...
2007-01-25 12:38:16 · answer #3 · answered by 9inchrod 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife gained weight after our daughter was born and in her eyes it was too much considering her height(short).Her breasts went a little south, the stretch marks were prominant on her hips,belly, and upper leg.She has changed quite a bit physically, but you know what, she is still as beautiful as she was when we were dating.She is still every bit as sexy and hot as ever.She would not tell you that because she can be insecure about it.I love the way she looks..........always.
2007-01-25 16:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by Pimpstick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And I'm the perfect physical specimen to be judging my wife's stretch marks and weight gain? Yeah, okay, I'll admit, I'd love to have her perfect, unmarked skin back... but I'm sure she says the same about my scars. And I have more scars and have had them longer. It doesn't bother me really, I don't think about except when someone asks.
2007-01-25 13:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by Sean J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No none of my wifes physical changes made her any less attractive to me. She seems to make a big deal out of it, and never really believes me. I love her for her, not just her physical makeup. Plus I'm not vaine enough to think that my physical apperance hasn't changed as well. It's life and you just need to move on with it.
2007-01-25 12:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by dogma06281 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't bother me. In fact, I can't imagine any change in my wife's body that would make me want her less. I was first attracted to her body but I found out she was much more and I married her mind and her soul. She turns me on because of who she is. That doesn't change with childbirth.
2007-01-25 12:32:37 · answer #7 · answered by SA Writer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your wife / gf makes you happy and she feels likewise, then it doesn't matter what she looks like. Attitude is everything. The only reason to try to correct such imperfections would be for health reasons. The woman isn't the only one who shows the effects of aging.
2007-01-25 15:28:00 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I became less attracted to her not because of the changes to her body, but changes to her attitude, her self-esteem became so low it became difficult for me to have the same intrest and drive as I did before the pregnancy.
2007-01-25 12:51:43 · answer #9 · answered by finished 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my wife is still sexy after two kids. i think that she is the best looking woman in the world. i married her for who she is. after 2 kids, she is still sexy, stretch marks and all
2007-01-25 13:44:08 · answer #10 · answered by young grown man 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing more sexier than a mother who can take care of her children that's with or without stretch marks.
2007-01-25 12:55:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋