2007-01-25 04:17:27 · 23 answers · asked by Vanesa G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
one thing is for certain he likes me because he tells others that I'm cute, but he only get;s frikin red when I see him! it;s like why get red when the girl you like id trying to talk to u?
2007-01-25 04:25:20 · update #1
Trap? Don't force anyone into a relationship when they don't want it. By the way, if he turns red when he sees you, then he obviously likes you. It's not "weird" that he does this. He's just shy.
2007-01-25 04:52:03 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying to make a point?
You could get pregnant. Go spastic.
Develop a disease.
Worse yet establish a relationship based on equality.
Treat him, and get treated with dignity. You know respect.
I think the most effective trap is a viable relationship.
Two people contribute to it and the sum (total) of the contributions is greater than the two parts from each person. That extra amount is the glue that keeps him trapped.
Try googling sociopath, just as a point of reference.
2007-01-25 12:29:44 · answer #2 · answered by Wonka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spring loaded deadfall trap!? First you have to learn about your prey. Are there enough of them to make learning about them useful? What trails do they use? What's thier food source? Where do they forage or hunt? Where do they drink? Often times seperate from thier food source. Finally where do they live? Many animals will have multiple lays (beds) and one or many dens or nests? Stalking!? Following them about from a distance to learn thier habits, likes/ dislike etc.
Trapping Tips:
Traps are set in places where they are likely to be.
Traps along trails will take advantage of the animals movement. Never place food traps in foraging grounds where food is everywhere unless the food is different and preferred by the animal and most importantly not available elsewhere nearby.
Mask your scent from any traps- they may already be wary of you and if they escape one of your traps they won't go near any others.
**Animals don't like to back up or go backwards.
Use natural formations, things and occurences to funnel them into the trap
2007-01-25 12:36:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds downright creepy and stalkerish! If you don' really know the guy and who he is and what he is all about, there is no possible way to know that he is truly for you..sounds like you are in a little girl fantasy that you need to reexamine and learn to have more confidence and be more happy with yourself.
Offering yourself for sex, even if his bites this time, is very short-term...he will not respect you and is likely to spread rumors, and rightly so, about how loose you are and you will only be very hurt in the long run and destroy any chance at a true, meaningful relationship in high school.
2007-01-25 12:22:11 · answer #4 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, it is important to arrange to be in his territory during feeding time. The male will be hungry, so I suggest you place a Big Mac N fries in the trap. Wait in the bushes until he goes into the trap and starts to eat, then pull the string allowing the trap door to slam shut. Remember, once trapped, he may become anxious, so throw a towel over the trap to keep him quiet, and cart him home.
Or, better yet, be yourself and stop trying to control others.
2007-01-25 12:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by metaphysical_kitten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you trap a bear. Set up this big metal cage under a nice tree. put some honey in it. attach the cage's door to a long rope.
You hold the end of the rope, but make sure you are hidden in near by bushes.
Then, as soon as he comes in for the honey, you pull the door shut, and shoot him with tranquilizers.
The only problem is that now, you have to feed him and take care of him, and since he is in captivity, he will hate you forever.
Some creatures do better in the wild, and if they really like you, they will be with you from their own free will.
2007-01-25 12:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trap a guy? In high school?
A bit of advice that served me well: don't worry about guys under the age of 25--especially if you are looking for anything serious/lasting. Next bit of advice: don't worry about guys in high school in general! Have fun! Focus on developing your own interests/talents/hobbies. You will have a lifetime to focus on guys, dating, marriage, children. Right now is about YOU. Enjoy it and don't piddle it away on some high school guy.
Beyond that, I wouldn't want to "trap" a guy anyway. The ones worth keeping don't need to be trapped.
2007-01-25 12:40:55 · answer #7 · answered by Charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To trap a guy.....
Dig a Burmiese Tiger trap ....cover it with old exam papers ...something he wants to really grind his heals into.....
Then dangle a pair of panties with a attached phone number written on a note over the pit...... He's gonna fall right in !
2007-01-25 12:41:07 · answer #8 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear Vanessa, sounds to me like you are also in high school.. i do not understand the term trap.. i assume you would like to talk to him so he doesn't have that reaction.and maybe things can go further into a relationship.. it's as simple as talk to him tell him things about yourself. continue to speak until you are sure he won't faint.once you are sure switch to a simple question about him so he must answer you or walk away .wait until he does one or the other..if he walks he is not ready try again tomorrow.if he gets mad assume you are mistaken and you walk away..( p.s. if you walk away don't look back).. .. .. hope i helped..
2007-01-25 12:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by pbear i 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think of it as "trapping him" think of it like your doing him a favor. Simply introduce yourself. Smile and flirt a bit...that is it. Simple yet very effective. good luck
2007-01-25 12:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by Maryanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋