My husband of 7 years is cheating...or has cheated. He won't let me within 5 feet of his laptop. I broke it in a fit of despair 2 weeks ago, stepped on it actually. He has had 2 cell phones in the last 4 months that he tried unsuccsessfully to hide from me. When his laptop was in for repair...everything in our relationship was great. The day it came back? He came home, and spent the night surfing away. Yesterday I got his credit card statement there was a charge of $29.95 for frndfndr and I've been trying to find the site but so far no luck. He says he's not cheating but on the nights we don't have sex, he's on his pc. Not to mention that he pays $40 /month for 2 porn cable channles. We have a sick 3 year old daughter together and he owns his own trucking company....is home everynight though. I have no finacial means for myself other than an allowence of 75$ a week. No family or friends in th eposition to help. If I confront him or ask, he says that he has nothing to prove
2007-01-25 04:06:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What I'm going to say is going to sting a bit, but you need to get a life, apart from your husband. I understand your frustration with your husband, and his addiction, but when you get destructive.....that's a bit over the top. If the two of you absolutley can not get along, you need to get apart. You need to get a job, and have your own finances. Then you need to move out if things do not improve....before somebody gets hurt. Good Luck!!
2007-01-25 04:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a fine line between keeping little secrets from your spouse and hiding things from your spouse. I am sorry to say but from the sounds of it, he has crossed that line. He is trying to hide things from you and with the way that he is reacting to you looking at his laptop is not good. I get the distinct impression that he doesn't care because he thinks you have nowhere to go but you do. It may not be easy but you need to get out of this relationship, he use banking on the idea that you will always be there whatever he does because he's cheated before and you are still there. Don't take anymore bull**** from him, leave.
2007-01-25 05:18:12 · answer #2 · answered by scorpio 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually this is true.... Why are you breaking things??? Do not do this out of anger as two wrongs do not make a right. If you do not feel confindent in your marriage and that you can trust him then leave and seperate if need be.
2007-01-25 04:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That stands for Adult Friend Finder...it's a site to find a partner to have a relationship with.
http://adultfriendfinder.com/search/p67712c.subadult_friend_finder_em&ip=auto
Confront him and if he lies move on, you can't change him he has to want to change and it doesnt sound like it.
2007-01-25 04:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy Pants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF HE'S HOME EVERYNIGHT, WHEN DO YOU THINK HE HAS TIME TO BE WITH THIS OTHER PERSON? OR YOU ARE JUST MAD CAUSE HE'S LOOKING AT PORN....?
WHY DON'T YOU JUST RENT SOME PORN AND WATCH IT WITH HIM? HE'LL PAY ATTENTION TO YOU. I PROMISE.
2007-01-25 04:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by sweetbabykitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to fix yourself first - these breaking rages you are going thru are not healthy for you
2007-01-25 04:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋