2007-01-25 04:06:13 · 18 answers · asked by holcomjul1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hire a Private Investigator....
2007-01-25 04:12:22 · answer #1 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, this tells me that you don't have proof that he's cheating on you yet so here's what I don't get. You actually want to catch him cheating!
Why would anyone want to go through that, it doesn't make any sense. All you are doing is creating a situation that breeds a lack of trust. Any person who keeps looking for something will find it so why not look for love, trust, respect and happiness.
What happens in your marriage is as much your responsibility as your spouses!
2007-01-25 04:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by open_phunguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a number of ways. It depends upon your financial situation. You can hire a private detective..the quickest manner to find out. You can set up a little recorder if you suspect he is bringing his "affair" into your home. This is what some parents do when they leave say their baby with a nanny and want to check how well the child is being taken care of. You could also get one of your friends to follow him in a vehicle he would not recognize, and therefore track his whereabouts for a few days. Or you can simply change cars with a friend ( a car he would not recognize ) and follow him yourself in a disguise...there are multiple ways to get your answer and not get caught...but you know, if you suspect he is cheating you deserve better. Once you confirm your suspicions I would get an attorney, and file for divorce or legal separation.
2007-01-25 04:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by Suzanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want ot catch him give him some rope to hang himself. Start going out on your own with girlfreinds and let him do the same. Then follow him. Check the milage on his car. Put one of those programs on your computer that will log everything. Be extra sweet and act like you beleive everything he says. Check his cell ohone every chance you get and alwasy hit redial on the home phone when you get home. Double back to the house when you aren't suppossed to be there because you forgot something. Just do not let him know you suspect and he will be carless. He will think you are too stupid to figure it out.
2007-01-29 02:10:17 · answer #4 · answered by browneyedgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get tiny video cameras pretty cheaply online these days.
If you've got money then hire a private investigator.
Also, why do you need to catch him in the act? If you suspect that strongly that he's cheating, then just leave him. Either he is cheating, or you have no trust in the relationship. Either way it's over.
2007-01-25 04:11:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Why does he have to leave the house to find entertainment without you? Why are you not going out with him? Don't you share interests in common outside the house? If he's going fishing don't you want to go?
Or what is he not getting at home that he has to go out for? If he's happy at home why would he need to leave the house?
2007-01-25 04:15:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why not just talk with him and face the music. If he's leaving clues around for you it's quite possible he wants to get caught and hopes you'll ask so he doesnt have to come out and say it.
2007-01-25 04:30:12 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy Pants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you know for SURE that he is cheating. WHY would you want to catch him? JUST LEAVE. Sounds like there are other ISSUES.
2007-01-25 04:13:22 · answer #8 · answered by Monty L 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Call a private investigator and have him followed or you have him followed yourself.... You can catch him if you try hard enough.
2007-01-25 04:33:19 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow him. Borrow someone else' car. If you can afford it, hire a P.I.
2007-01-25 04:16:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋