Are you willing to work at your marriage no matter what? Or do you just get divorced?
2007-01-25 04:04:47 · 22 answers · asked by 2strongfor2long 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have been in this crazy marriage of mine for 10 yrs....ive been cheated on several times and put up with more crap than i wanted to. But i have stuck it out for my kids....and yes i know thats bad but its been ingrained into my head that once your married once thats it...make it work. But i have just about had it and am seriously considering divorce. I think it should be a personal choice myself...i dont think you should allow anything or anyone else to influence you like i have with my kids. The way i see it is it my life and its the only one im gonna get so why should i spend it putting up with crap from someone. Good Luck
2007-01-25 04:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
My husband and that i have been separated for 2 years this summer season. the first 3 hundred and sixty 5 days became problematical. We weren't enemies, yet nor were we close. We both spent that factor healing harm thoughts. throughout the time of that first 3 hundred and sixty 5 days although we saved the strains of verbal change open. This very last 3 hundred and sixty 5 days has been much better. we've those days began the divorce lawsuits, yet we've already divided each and every of the resources, so it will be an noticeably instantly ahead divorce. we've commited to last good acquaintances. We meet for lunch or beverages once a week to stay stuck up on each and every others lives. i recognize that no count number number what occurs in life, I have a chum continuously. We under no circumstances stated getting lower back jointly, we only realized that we were 2 those who were better off as acquaintances. We began out that way, and we go with to proceed that way. Divorce does no longer must be grotesque if both events would properly be mature about it.
2016-10-16 02:21:47 · answer #2 · answered by sandeep 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i am ... I only feel that there are 3 reasons for divorce as God hates divorce.... I feel it is only okay to leave and divorce a marriage is in extreme cases of spousal abuse or abuse to the kids. Adultery that does not stop and continues to happen and is habitual and when one spouse wants out like abandonment. You dont get divorced for any old reason just because.... For any other reason divorce is totally out of the question and should never even be an option.
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2007-01-25 04:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think divorce should always be the last option. On saying that it is true, that for some that is the final and last resolution left for them. It's not easy, but possible to work through the problems and move on from there. It is even more difficult when children are involved. You have to think of them and their future if you divorce. Point is, try first and don't consider divorce as the adoption, unless all your effort is useless.
2007-01-25 04:14:09 · answer #4 · answered by dadknows 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only way I would divorce is if my husband cheated on me multiple times, or if abuse was the case. Too many couples throw their marriages away because they are too lazy to work on them. Everyone thinks it's all about "me" when you two are a team and it should be about "us." I think every marriage can be saved unless extreme circumstances apply. If you aren't going to take your vows seriously and not committ yourself to one person, why waste your time and someone else's time and get married? It makes me sick.
2007-01-25 04:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I worked on my married for a long time but my ex wasn't willing to take the time to fix the problems with me. Divorce shouldn't be taken lightly. If there is no way of fixing the marriage then it's time to get out of it and start over.
2007-01-25 04:09:08 · answer #6 · answered by truckmama_34 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Thankfully I have a wonderful marriage..I would do anything to save my marriage except for cheating.I would not tolerate that and that would be the only thing that I would not be willing to work out.If my husband ever cheated it would be over there is no excuse for cheating.Plain & simple.
2007-01-25 04:17:42 · answer #7 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step back a min and look at the big picture--would you be happier with or without them---and that helps making that decision --don't stay if there is violence of any kind verbal or physical--sometimes when a problem is sitting in your lap you don't see a solution--always talk to your spouse --let them know whats up so that they have a fair shake in helping with it too--I think too many people throw in the towel too fast--and all they are doing is finding someone else with a new set of problems--all relationships have problems and every problem has a solution so its up to people to work through them ---it makes the relationship strong and lasting--
2007-01-25 04:12:46 · answer #8 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
to me, people make the committment of marriage to quickly and really dont take the time to think about what it really means and then they throw it away say easily. you made a promise in front of god through thick and thin and too easily is that promise broken. i think that you should work it out, i know there are things that causes people to want to give up in a relationship, but first see if u can work it out.
2007-01-25 04:16:31 · answer #9 · answered by Rygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me divorce is out of the question.
Yes if problems come up in marriage, my wife and I are willing to work at our marriage and we are commited to making it work.
2007-01-25 04:10:14 · answer #10 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋