It seems to be impossible to find a nice girl who is lonely.
Each time I try to seduce a girl that I like, she always says " Sorry, I have my man ".
Now I don't even talk to them, because it will be the same answer for sure...
I'm sad....
2007-01-25 03:18:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ Europe (Continental) ➔ Greece
Maybe the problem here is not other men but your ways. To begin with you use the word 'seduction' and not 'approach' or 'flirt'. Women want to feel respected. The gigolo attitude is not very popular nowadays. Wether it's for a more serious relationship or something more superficial you should try to be more gentle.
To tell you the truth, most girls I know would not say directly that they have someone. Not because they don't love the person they are with but because if someone acts and behaves in a friendly and nice way they won't try to put them off like that.
2007-01-25 19:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you're looking for the wrong feature in a woman. You shouldn't approach a woman simply because she's beautiful. You should approach a woman because you want to be her FRIEND first. This is a bit less intimidating than a man who's trying to "seduce" her (as you say). Do not try to seduce a woman when you first meet her; this is why you are lonely. Be friendly, warm, funny, and she will like you for who you are.
Be nice. Be kind. Look for a woman who has a fun personality, a good heart, and a mind of her own and when you find her, you will never be lonely again.
2007-01-25 03:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by maude3746 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In general, women will easily quit their current boyfriend for a better one. Many women don't STAY single, they just hop from boyfriend to boyfriend. The fact that she has a boyfriend doesn't mean that she is happy with him. (I don't approve of this behavior, but it happens)
On the other hand, this is a double edged sword. YOUR girlfriend could leave you for another man. It sucks.
What I'm trying to say is: don't flirt committed girls at first sight, but if they seem to want it or provoke it, don't hesitate, either. Chances are, if she keeps flirting with you then she's already looking for someone. Could be you.
P.
P.S. NO NO NO NO NO. You don't want to be their FRIEND. You want to be their MAN. Ignore all advice that urge you to be "friendly". You have to be casual, sincere, funny but also manly and decisive. Don't go for this gay crap and end up buying nail polish together.
2007-01-28 12:02:25 · answer #3 · answered by Pepinos 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not really know why this question is addresses as concerning Greece but i will say:
You always look a girl at her eyes and say how beautiful she is and how you are impressed from her personality and that would be a great opportunity for you if you could have the possibility to tell her how you respect her and admire her.
If you do this NO ONE will say to you: I have a man
2007-01-27 07:18:35 · answer #4 · answered by Tolis 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because we are human and human always like beautiful things....
a true man will not looking for a beautiful girl from her appearance only.it's the inside that important....you can't judge somebody by looking at her appearance only...you have to know her better....so take ur time with her....
and do not give up yet...because if you do, you'll never find her...and don't be afraid to tell the person you love that you love her...
2007-01-25 03:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by ckedot 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree w/ the supply and demand answer....
But don't give up there's gotta be a few out there. I suffer from the same problem, alot of good men are all taken...
2007-01-25 03:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by Jay's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you haven't asked enough,,,keep at it, some of the most beautiful girls are the most insecure and are sometimes alone because people like you think they are unrachable...
2007-01-25 03:23:50 · answer #7 · answered by IwntYrHd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not true--there are 10 women per man
Keep trying, for every 100 women you ask youll get at least 3 women who will say yes.
Also depends on your age.
2007-01-25 03:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by god knows and sees else Yahoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriends come and go, if you make friends with a girl first then you can be lucky enough to catch up the right time :-)
2007-01-25 03:24:12 · answer #9 · answered by Ivory Q 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am alone!I agree with the first answer given!Though I think you are a bit stereotyping!Grey_1 is also correct!Insecurity my friend can exist even in the most goodlooking woman.The right approach is the kind approach and being yourself!(I hope yourseIf is kind,hehe).Good luck!
2007-01-25 09:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋