I know for a fact that EVERY self thinking human being on planet earth has a criteria of what they want in/form a mate, inside and out........So let hear it
2007-01-25 03:12:13 · 10 answers · asked by Biggame 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not negotiable: I'm to be treated with love and respect at all times, even when we are fighting. I am to do the same for her.
Everything else is negotiable.
2007-01-25 03:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
To me man and woman are made for each other. Question of negotiable and non-negotiable is just a myth. Man can not live
without a woman, and vice verse. It is an attitude which counts. Little bit of common sense, a little respect of each other, and a sincere effort to understand each other. It works wonders. Just try it and 90% problems will fade away. I am talking from my own experience of 41 years of marriage [almost like a long long honeymoon for me]. You may contact me anytime, and I shall share the secret of success in marriage. Everything comes from within and not without. Everybody has a right to be happy, so where is the problem? It is with you only. Do not blame anybody. The moment your point one finger to other, four fingers are pointed to yourself. Marriage is fun, a pleasure, and a soothing relationship, all the way, all the time.
Sincerely,
Sunder Thadani.
mailto:sunder360@yahoo.com
PH:91.9969017516
2007-02-02 00:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by sunder360 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Non-negotiable: Addictions as in drinking, drugs, smoking.
Lies
Lack of communication
Poor hygiene
No spirituality
Extreme predjudice
Hard political line
Negotiable : Everything else
2007-01-30 08:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by reclusive_n_fine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I'm wrong, but after many years of abuse, I now expect to be treated like someone very special! Call it being selfish....I don't care!
It's not right though that i expect this from the man who had nothing to do with the abuse.
BUT also when he sits and brags about what he did for this wife or that girlfriend, I feel, OK, it's my turn.
I'm affraid to completly open up just yet, cause it seems when I do, that's when the abuse starts...........so I try to give to him what I can for now.
But I'd love to beable to not only make myself happy, but him also.
I won't put up with his cheating ways, so he best get his a** in shape NOW! :-)
2007-01-25 03:19:26 · answer #4 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All I want is a compassionate, professional man who makes me feel so alive. If he makes my skin shiver all the better. Other than that, I don't give a darn. I hate rich men, but if he happened to be, I just surely hope he would never believe that I would be interested in him for that. If he likes to go camping in an old fashioned tent in Canada, let me at him. He also has to be emotional, maternal, and so caring. Plus no fooling around!
2007-01-25 03:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Non Negotiable: Respect and compassion to me and our marriage.
Negotiable: Pretty much the rest is negotiable.
2007-01-25 03:17:51 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy Pants 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not negotiable: Cheating and physical or mental abuse on me or our children.
All else is negotiable
2007-02-02 00:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by Spokie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Non Negotiable..... TREAT PEOPLE THE WAY YOU WANT TO BE TREATED!
Negotiable.....who turn is it to be in charge of the remote!
2007-02-01 19:39:18 · answer #8 · answered by Lady D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Non-Negotiable.Cheating and lying.
Everything else is pretty much negotiable.
2007-02-02 01:53:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like to be treated special and not have my husband's eye's on other women just his wife and not be cheated on and be there for me in ruff times
2007-02-02 01:11:41 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋