can u really be bi?????

Question

wats the cause of it?? iz there such a thing??? can u be bi for the rest of ur life or ull kno wich sexuality iz right for u??? can u have a gf and a bf?? if u dont mind do u think u can share some experiences or something to convince me that there is such a thing. cuz im confused. =(

Answer 1

yes,someone can really be bi,bi people are not greedy or confused.they are just attracted to both sexes,in some cases,more one than the other,but the attraction to both is always there.bi's know that their sexuality is right,because they like both.bi's could be happy with either/or.don't be confused,its something not really understood unless you are bi,no offense.

Answer 2

Unless I'm imagining my life to date, then yes you can be bi. Yes there is such a thing. You will be bi for the rest of your life although, you might settle down with just one person and be in a straight or homosexual relationship. Some do have polyamorous or open relationships with both genders.

I do mind sharing - not because I'm shy - because there are minors on here who need to be protected. Personally, I don't care whether I've convinced you. I know and, for me, that's enough.

Your confusion is understandable, it falls outside your sphere of understanding.

Answer 3

Personally, I think that people can be bi 4 the rest of their life because some people are born that way. What I mean by that is...I know someone who is Bi, but that person don't want to be that way. No matter how hard that person tries to change, he just cant. He was born that way. He is attracted to both sexes.

Answer 4

The way I understand it, a bisexual person can be attracted to, and have romantic/sexual relationships with a person of either gender. SOME bisexuals maintain multiple relationships, a practice called polyamory. Some straight people also practice ployamory. Some bisexuals date both genders for a while and then settle into a LTR with just one person.
There are so many variations in sexuality it would be impossible to give examples of each one.

The people who say a bisexual person is greedy and just wants the "best of both worlds" is probably someone who struggles to be faithful in ANY monogomous relationship. And I will admit, I have known people who claim to be bisexual simply to feed their lust for sex outside of their primary relationship. But please don't make assumptions about ALL bisexuals based on the behavior of just a few.

Finally - I always try to make a distinction between sexual orientation and sexual behavior. Your orientation may be straight, gay or bi. You cannot change your orientation - it is part of who you are. You CAN control your behavior. A bi person may choose to express attraction to both genders or live monogamously in either a gay or straight relationship. Sometimes a straight female will have sex with another female to entertain a man. It does NOT make her bi.
Sometimes a straight man will experiment sexually with another man. That behavior does not make him gay. If he develops romantic feelings and pursues a relationship with a man, then I would say he has been gay (or bi) all his life, and just began to express this aspect of his sexuality.

Hope this helps.

Answer 5

personally, i find all people fall somewhere on the spectrum between gay and straight. some folks are only solely attracted to one gender, and that's fine. but most people i know fall somewhere on the spectrum.

i'm married to a woman but i have been in many relationships (monogamous and non-monogamous) with people of all genders. while i intend to spend the rest of my life with my wife, and we are monogamous, i am still attracted to other people, men and women, and so is she.

Answer 6

If you want to be with girls one minute and then men another, its no ones business but your own.... Do ya thang and dont feel the need to justify what you like... "have you cake an eat it too" why else would you get some cake...

Answer 7

girls can i dont know why but it is extremly rare fur a guy to be bi even if they say they are bi they just are not ready to admit they are gay

Answer 8

It is normal to feel affection for many people. It is perversion to express this affection sexually. The Almighty gave us a great gift in love sex and marriage. If you take it apart, you destroy it!

Answer 9

I personally think people that claim they are bi
are either just gay and confused.
Or, Straight and confused.
Or girls trying to be trendy.

Answer 10

Bi people are just greedy and want the best of both worlds. I say u choose one or the other. I like to ask people who come to me with this question ...... Who would you like to spend the rest of your like with?? a man or a woman????????