Why is it so hard for women to experience organism??

Question

I have sex with my bf about twice a week but i never get organism which is disappointing.He's already trying very hard tho but i only feel a lil high.

Answer 1

Some women can not orgasm just by having intercourse. Try having him or you stimulate your clit.

Answer 2

Very few women do orgasm through intercourse. That's because THE organ for a woman's sexual pleasure is the clitoris, and it's not that close to the vaginal entrance.

Now, do you orgaxm through masturbation? If you do,. then one of the things that you need to do is to show him how you pleasure yourself. Yes, he can and should show you his favorites for himself as well. If not, then it's because most women need to learn how to orgasm.

http://www.the-clitoris.com/n_html/tips.htm

Here's some links for the two of you to read together:

Answer 3

I would suggests lots of foreplay first and some oral sex , and lots of communication , between you and your partner , let him know what you want, how you want it , and where you want it ! if he does something that feels good let him know , if he does something you don;t like well let him know also , this is not going to offend him it is going to help you both in achieving what you want ! you never know you might just both have an orgasm at the same time , believe me it is possible .....

Answer 4

You are trying to hard. Dont think about it and just have fun. It will come.....hopefully. :(

Answer 5

I don't have that problem. I have multiple so I'm good. :-)

I do have friends that have the same problem. They stimulate themselves during sex to climax.

Answer 6

sweetie, you're trying for the wrong thing....you should be going for an ORGASM......go try again