Not complaining about it. But it would be nice to get the same attention from girls. I am straight. Why do gay guys find me attractive and what can i do to shift this attractiveness to women?
2007-01-25 02:42:18 · 45 answers · asked by Hard Doodle 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
if you are looking into their eyes and smiling....
well that is how most people sense interest. i am guessing you may actually be more comfortable around the guys and end up sending the wrong signals. try looking at the girls more and smiling at them when they look your way.
2007-01-25 02:50:50 · answer #1 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
A compliment really, have you asked girls why?, may be you dress feminine/ have feminine habits, or just hang around the wrong areas. It's not a bad thing for a male to have feminine traits, I like it because I am not that feminine myself ( Yes I'm a straight female - but I can DIY better than a some men).
Good luck, enjoy the attention anyway - just don't take it anywhere!
2007-01-25 02:49:06 · answer #2 · answered by Kanst 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-27 23:30:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing ALL women think when they see a gorgeos(sp?) man, is they are either Gay, or taken. SO, being that, maybe women don't even bother. I would say being hit on by gay men would be a plus, because then if they find out you are straight, they may tell their single woman friends about you.... Make friends with them at least, LOL... You may get more than you expected.
2007-01-25 02:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by hammettgoddess 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Tell the gay guys plain and simple, when you first realize they're hitting on you, "I'm not gay." As for getting the girls to pay attention to you, be polite and pay attention to them. They also love flattery. And as ZZ Top says, "Every girl's crazy 'bout a sharp-dressed man!"
2007-01-25 02:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Men are men, whether they are gay or not. If they see something they find sexy...they want a part of it. And, it doesn't matter if you add more ruggedness or not or dress differently. Be yourself.
Just talk about women...and adore women. You might want to start hanging out in different locations.
2007-01-25 02:48:45 · answer #6 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult to say without a photo.
If your looks are as nice as your attitude seems to be, I can't understand why you don't attract more women. And I'm not surprised that you attract men. x
2007-01-25 02:47:53 · answer #7 · answered by lou b 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
That happens when you’re camp or look gay. I know that’s not the answer you want to hear, but it’s true. I’m a macho type guy and it’s always women who hit on me (never men). Life’s a b!tch isn’t it lol.
2007-01-25 07:35:27 · answer #8 · answered by pissed off with abuse, goodbye! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a girlfriend and tell the guys thankyou for their attention but you're taken
2007-01-25 10:38:21 · answer #9 · answered by Firebreather 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In most cases guys that like guys like guys that are guys.
in other words you act like a guy so that attracts guys. myself if a guy is flamey it is a major turn off .
I am not in any a flamer but both are attracted to me , just not the ones or as many as I want.
2007-01-25 02:53:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well...Gay men have what's called GAYDAR. They pick up signals that you're giving off saying that you open to gay advances. To figure this out...ask the next Gay Guy hitting on you, what attracted him to you. Then you'll be aware of some of your behaviors that are causing this event for you.
2007-01-25 02:46:55 · answer #11 · answered by Laughing Man Copycat 5 · 6⤊ 2⤋