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Depends on what you were fighting about. If you think it can be worked out and you can be friends again, then talk to her. But sometimes its best to cut your losses and move on.

2007-01-25 02:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by Chevy Girl 3 · 0 0

Forgiving another is easier said than done, especially if she really hurt you. It's worth it though. I have found in my own life that when I forgive someone I'm mad at, then I'm liberated from the anger I carry about them. That anger causes me more harm than it does to them. I feel tight, bitter and mean. Soon I start hating myself!

Think to yourself: "What is it about her that caused her to act that way?" Maybe she came from a troubled home or was just dumped and feels insecure. I'm sure there was a reason she reacted in the way she did. I'm not excusing it. I'm just saying that people sometimes act out of fear or anger and are controlled by the little girl or boy in us. Once you can see her with compassion, as a scared, sad or anger little girl, then hopefully you can forgive her for hurting you.

Don't forget to make it very clear to her what she did wrong and how you felt about it. She deserves the opportunity to learn from her mistakes.

A good friend of mine told an ex, right after I broke up with her, that she could "do better." I was furious for weeks, but forgave him, knowing that he was in a bad place at that time and was angry at me for something completely different. I still think about that from time and time and get angry, but I know that he didn't really want to hurt me and that he just reacted childishly. Our friendship hit a hiccup during that time, but continues to this day, thirty-years after we met in Kindergarten!

George Sachs M.A.

2007-01-25 11:06:07 · answer #2 · answered by george_sachs 2 · 1 0

I would talk to her.she is my best friend.

2007-01-25 10:45:46 · answer #3 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0 0

i would call her rite now..start the talkin..im sure shes waiting..coz shes my best friend

2007-01-25 10:49:53 · answer #4 · answered by spike 3 · 0 0

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