I don't know if i should wait or just go for it.
2007-01-25 01:42:57 · 29 answers · asked by shadowsredangel6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Aww hell go for it lol. Use some damn protection though.
2007-01-25 01:45:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those who are saying GO for it! They don't know you and could care less about you or the consequences it may bring in your life. I say wait. If I had it all to do over, I would have. In my case, I didn't get that choice. I feel it would be very fulfilling to be with the right person and experience this special time with the right person.An empty feeling, feeling of regret comes with the mistake of just having sex for the sake of just doing it. Please think long and take your time. I have experienced much in my lifetime. I do care about the younger generation and the decisions they make. Please wait. God Bless you. Yes, I am a christian. It took me a long time to get there. I made many mistakes along the way. Don't let yourself be used. You are better than that. God has a good plan for your life. Seek him and you will see. I wish I had at a young age. I was no angel, believe me. I was raped at a young age and then just gave up. I became wild, I had a filthy mouth, I never shared what happened to me. I kept it inside for many years. I was not a happy camper. I was laughing on the outside and crying on the inside. Please wait, don't throw your life away. Get a good education and use the gifts you were given. Seek and ye shall find. I know there will be some smart alecs on here to respond to my answer. So be it. Thats the devil using them to push you in the other direction. God bless you honey.
2007-01-25 10:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by Godlover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question is very vague. Are you waiting for marriage or for you to get older or what? I don't know how mature you are or what you situation is but...
I assume you are fairly intelligent since you are attempting to ask. obviously if you have to ask than you are not ready. You will know when the time is right. If the man you are with is pressuring you than leave him. You are in control of your own body and what you allow to happen to it. remember virginity only comes once.
Also remember sex is a big responsibility make sure you use protection it's bad enough when someone catches a disease but can you imagine if you caught something from someone your very first time. Or getting pregnant it only takes one time and are you ready to handle a baby.
Only you can make these choices and I hope you make the right ones. Good luck
2007-01-25 09:51:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats really a question for you too answer. Each has its pros and cons and you need to wieght those before making a decsion. It's definitely not something that you should just jump into. Us of the male gender rearely if ever regret our first time but I know alot of girls who have (strange how it's skewed in that fashion). No offense, but the best is the uppity little rich girls who think they are ghetto and go have sexy time with some wanna be preppy thug named T-Dog and then they wonder why T-Dog doesn't talk to them after, lol. Look, if you find the right person, go ahead and go for it..but don't do it just to do it, that you will definitely regret!
2007-01-25 09:49:56 · answer #4 · answered by Blind Sighted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait. it is better to enjoy love making than just having sex...There is a big difference between the two.
2007-01-25 09:47:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u r a romantic person n u get a similar one who is more interested in romance/ i mean telling u romantic poetry or wants to go with u for movies{romantic ones} automatically u will indulge in sex? romance is prior to sex/ .If u r very sexy n want to hve sex then u must choose ur partner accordingly/ just having sex without romance /i dont know how it goes/ it can never develop any relation/ lust for sex is not good/ Pl be frank tell me little more about u?R
2007-01-25 09:55:22 · answer #6 · answered by raashi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how comfortable you are with the person. I think sex is very important in a relationship. ***some times is better to test drive the car before you buy it**** And if the sex is good( Yeeeeeeesssssss) you likely more to stay with that person. Some it times the suck. But there's always a chance of improvement.
p.s. alwas use a condom
2007-01-25 09:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't understand what the hype is either way... sex is sex.. its fun.. more people should do it and not give a **** about it, I am not saying to not use protection... you should. What I am saying is why can't people just have sex because its fun to do.. and it would be fun to do with each other. You should be able to see someone you think is attractive and just go have sex.. its fun. no strings attached no worries, no emotional concerns
2007-01-25 09:48:39 · answer #8 · answered by Dylan m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until marriage. Don't give into pressure, or to the advice of liberals. They always believe that "if it feels good, you should do it."
Following that philosophy, one should stuff his face with enough food to balloon up to 350 pounds plus.
Liberalism is a mental disorder. Again, don't listen to them (including not listening to the above replies).
2007-01-25 09:46:40 · answer #9 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want children or risk acquiring a STD? That's what you are going for. Not to mention the drama of the relationship.
If I tell you to wait, will you take the advice?
2007-01-25 09:47:14 · answer #10 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never wait when it comes to sex go for it
2007-01-25 09:47:22 · answer #11 · answered by simpleguy24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋