Taken Gemini (M) persues me 9 months ongoing. WHY??

Question

Since april 06 a Gem (M), started flirting with me (scorp f). I'm very attracted 2 him, but he's a flirt +has a gf for 3 yrs (saggi). I told him I'm not interested, but he went crazy 2 try 2 win me. Showed up @ my house constantly & call me everyday. I told him to erase my number&leave me alone. One afternoon we bumped into eachother,I agreed (with a cool attitude) 2 have some drinks. He turned out 2B the most fun! We became friends, pure platonic (I didndt want more, caus of the gf)! After 3 months I' found myself fallen for this guy. I told him he succeeded, then had sex with him for the 1st time + told him to leave me alone, cause this was not going anywhere. He didnt.He said he didnt want to miss our special connection. I know what he means, cuz we are very interested in eachothers life, never restrict eachother, help eachother with everything, and we laugh a lot, caus we are both real rebels. We are the best friends. But its difficult, cause I'm a scorp& I cant deny my feelings.

For 9 months he calls/comes on over nearly everyday. It's a real friendship with periods of me not wanting 2 see him (and he not accepting that), because I find it so difficult because of my feelings. He told me multiple times he wanted ME in his life for real (a a next girlf??? because he stated when we started to know eachother, women can never make him choose. I never asked him to neither.), but he adjusts to what I want (friends) to keep me in his life.
Yesterday I couldnt take it anymore, we were watching tv together, leaning towards eachother and I told him... ok let's try this again. The he got all serious (he looked positively surprised) and asked me for how long. Because he didnt want to be thrown out of my life AGAin when I would change my mind again. Then he said... I want you for sure WITHOUT A FREAKIN DOUBT, BUT I need to think about this... because I dont want to loose what we have an dI want you to think about it first good too.

What does he want with/from me anyway?

Answer 1

He wants to win you. Once he feels he has you, he'll quickly become bored.

I dated and considered marrying a Gemini man. They are great conversationalists..very flirty and infectious with their wit and zest for life.

But once they have you and you become "routine"...he's bored....immediately....looking for that next girl to do that to.

They enjoy the thrill of the hunt. If you want to keep him around, continue doing what you're doing...he secretly loves it.