I work my ass off to be the perfect trophy wife and it's a 24/7 job.I deserve everything I have and the guys I have on the side.
2007-01-25 01:27:17 · 22 answers · asked by Madison 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband may be 15 years older but he's very good looking so it's not like I'm selling myself.I'm actually attracted to the guy.
2007-01-25 01:29:26 · update #1
People do look down on women who marry for money. Women like you are a dime a dozen. they use men for a appearance of esteem and value because you have none. You said it yourself to be the "perfect trophy wife" That's shallow and vain. Plus you give the rest of the female population a bad name
2007-01-25 01:43:15 · answer #1 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really have to ask the question when you described it that way? You are calling yourself a trophy wife and talking about the guys on the side - you are giving yourself a bad name - doesn't matter what anyone else says! You really need to get your priorities straight. I feel sad for you as you will never know what true love is.
2007-01-25 09:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by Kitt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are other viewpoints on marriage than the one you hold. It may benefit you to re-examine your concept of some things.
Please hear me out.
Consider please your own family of origin, and what you learned from their example regarding marriage. What was the example shown you by others as well?
And ask yourself, is it all really about the money? I think there's a good chance you are seeking something deeper, more than that, and more than being a "trophy" wife.
Somehow I believe you really don't want to be that.
Hope you do okay.
2007-01-25 10:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by Jed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with what Mikey B said. May I just add that, you are full of yourself...meaning you seem incapable of loving anyone other than you.
This is not a marriage, you are a gold digger and people look down on people like you because of your own description of yourself.
Tell me, who is going to take loving care of you in your time of need? Wouldn't you rather have a solid, caring marriage, and devote yourself to that one person...someone who will hold you when you feel down, lovingly kiss away your tears and hold a cool wash cloth to your forehead when you're sick with a fever? Money cannot hold a candle to true love...but of course, you may never know the true meaning of these emotions.
2007-01-25 10:05:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u were truly happy why would u have the need to have the men on the side? people may look down on u, because u aren't really being true to yourself, your actually living a lie, to keep a life and a lifestyle but do u really know love? your happiness is dependent on things, materialistic things that can't really buy u happiness.
2007-01-25 09:41:24 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont mind mikey b. but he's right tho.
to answer ur question, lots of people marry for money. even those who don't realise it. or money plays a major part in the decision to get married.
what really gets looked down on is disrespect for marriage. and you've shown quite a lot of it. do you really consider yourself an asset or a liability?
i know what i think
2007-01-25 11:04:28 · answer #6 · answered by FRANCIS C.N. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes l am sorry to say it but l must agree with the others on this. You are looked down on because you are a cheating little wench who deserves to be frowned down on. You do not deserve respect because of your childish attitude. Shame on you. What happened to loyalty and faithfulness. Those things obviously mean nothing to you, do they ?? Grow up !!
2007-01-25 09:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're stupid. You are the reason people look down on trophy wives. "I'm actually atrracted to him." You're an idiot. I never used to look down on trophy wives, but you have opened my eyes. "And the guys I have on the side." Do you understand the concept and definition of marriage? Moron, you. I hope he made you sign a pre-nup. Good luck being a loser.
2007-01-25 09:36:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
work your ass off how?going to the salon?getting waxed,your nails done,your hair foiled and your face all prettied up?or maybe at the plastic surgeons getting the fat sucked out of your thighs,your butt lifted and your breast implants put in?or shopping for Gucci clothes,Manolo heels and birkin bags? i know you might hot,but i bet my own happiness that you and your husband are both miserable.that's why people look down on you.seriously,wake up to yourself.life is too short.
2007-01-26 04:53:04 · answer #9 · answered by Jane Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is marriage ? A union of 2 souls, in heart mind and soul. It is a union. The soul mate. Eve was created out of Adam when he was in the deepest state of consiousness. Eve is the physical expression of Adam at his core level. Therefore the 2 shall become 1. Eve is Adams intuitive self. His consicience. His help meet to protect him from himself. However, being so material and soulish, I doubt you even have a marriage albeit its a legal one. Union ? of mind ? of heart ? Of soul ? Marriage at it ultimate level is the union of 2 souls at the deepest core level.
2007-01-25 09:43:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋