This is a serious question so dont report me for adult content
but for men and women how do you stop yourself from being "turned on" for example when your at work or shopping
how do you stop yourself?
2007-01-25 01:22:23 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I have learned that I allow where my mind goes, yes it may wander some times, but ultimately I control where it goes. So if I find it turned on and I'm at work, I concentrate harder on what I'm doing, or get up and go talk to a co-worker. If I'm at home I just do something else, play a game, work out or something. Guys and Girls are completely different though, not sure if I can help you much!
2007-01-25 01:27:49 · answer #1 · answered by yhwhlivesinme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, men are turned on much more easily than women, as nature intended. So, I think that men, particularly young men, are having to control themselves most of the time. Something few women seem to appreciate, and hence, the trouble some men get into regarding sex. They are also exploitable by women.
I honestly don't think that men can, or want, to try and turn themselves off. I don't know how they would do it. Women have a slower arousal process, so I am sure that they can more easily control themselves. That is why a man often doesn't really believe a woman (initially) when she says 'no'. It is taken as her not wanting to seem easy, because sex is still seen as something that men do to women.
2007-01-25 04:24:56 · answer #2 · answered by Veritas 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens to me constantly and always at times when I have no chance of getting it, like as you say at work and stuff.
Its good though I can keep it going and build it up until I get home then my hubby doesnt know whats hit him lol xx
If im really desperate then the loos always available x
joseph c just cos your wife gets constant headaches doesnt mean all girls hate sex lol only joking xx
2007-01-25 01:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can stop yourself from being turned on but you can minimize the risk of it happening by not exposing yourself to temptation.
2007-01-25 01:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by Great Dane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to stop a natural feeling like that. We are for the most part in control and know when to react to this action.
2007-01-25 01:30:27 · answer #5 · answered by cowboybronco01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop myself? Never, I have learned to deal with it in all sorts of ways. It depends on the situation. In fact, if it didn't happen, I would be checking my palse to make sure that I am still alive. It is human nature. Live with it and enjoy......
2007-01-25 02:25:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never been turned on at work or while shopping but I'd say look for the ugliest person near you and use that.
2007-01-25 02:04:50 · answer #7 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should stop yourself from being turned on, as long as you don't jump on the poor girl, whats the harm in it.
2007-01-25 01:26:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't tned to get turned on really at work or whilst shopping i'm too busy concentrating on the task in hand no pun intended gents.
2007-01-25 01:25:18 · answer #9 · answered by Missbutterfly:-) 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try going to the restroom and splashing cold water on your face... it works every time.
2007-01-25 01:26:49 · answer #10 · answered by capnemo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋