In our country there are some people who never progress and they never allow others also to progress. Agree or disagree?
2007-01-25 01:10:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WE CAN SAY THEM SATISFY PEOPLE.
2007-01-28 03:41:55 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Which is your country??
Anyway, I think this is something many countries have in common.
I’m living now in Spain for over 10 years, before I’ve studied in Germany and USA and I’ve worked in GB for almost 2 years.
There does exist a cancer in human nature and it’s called ENVY!!!
People can’t accept another’s superior quality, achievement, or possession and either desires it or wishes that the other fails and looses everything...
And even more if you are a foreigner or if your family roots are from another (not European) country.
And on the other hand inside your own culture you’ll find these stupid people with stupid beliefs, saying that things are like that since centuries and you just have to adapt yourself to the circumstances. That’s the most unbelievable behaviour I’ve even seen... but how can you wish your son or your daughter the same rotten, unsuccessful and unhappy life as yours?? Don’t you want to see them progress, doing things better than you did??
There is a old aunt of mine who didn’t want their daughter to study, as she said: I didn’t study, you don’t study... I have been miserable all my life - so your life should be as miserable as mine was...
Well, she went to university, because her father had more brain than his wife, but hell, she was so angry with her daughter and treated her like rubbish, saying stupid things like "this won’t help you for nothing, nobody has studied in our family, what you need is husband and less books..."
Well, after all she did her way.
I personally found out, that sometimes my own people don’t treat me very friendly as I am a marketing manager of a good company here and they think that I don’t deserve this career.
Why? I don’t know...
Then you have to ad the envy of the local people saying that I steal their jobs... although they are not qualified at all...
2007-01-25 13:24:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anita P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this country (I assume the US) the only thing holding you back is yourself and your inability to see that.
When they train elephants as babies for the circus, they put a heavy chain on them. They cannot escape. After years, they begin to accept that they cannot get away if there is a chain on their leg. They stop trying.
As adults, you see elephants at the circus-they have a tiny rope on their leg. You think that can hold an elephant? But the truth is the elephant cannot escape. Not because it isn't strong enough, but because it believes it can't, so it doesn't try.
The only prison you have is the one you create for yourself. Sure, there will be setbacks and lessons learned the hard way. Rather than see these as getting screwed, look at them as opportunities to improve - lessons learned on how to do things right in the future.
2007-01-25 09:43:11 · answer #3 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are correct. There are ill-minded people not only in our country, but all over the universe. There is a saying that, the dog never eat grass but it will not allow the cow to eat it. That dog's mind or soul is adopted a many in the earth.
2007-01-25 09:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by Expression 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This the tendancy of certian individuals that like to behave as crab when they see a person doing well they will do everything in their power to hold them back and every seuch person there is no other way to stop as he is more affraid of the person who has the telent that he will suceed and therfore he behave like that and you will have to leave with it.
2007-01-25 09:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree Cent percent.But onething u will also agree that
we progress due to all those people if we take their ego as our inspiration to make progress.
have a nice time.
2007-01-25 09:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by DJ101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one holds me back. I will progress any way I can.
2007-01-25 09:26:40 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i completely agree with you, there are many people like that..................... but its up to us that how we receive such people, b'coz if we really have might no one can let us down
i also feel that such people are real criminals in our country and should be punished (boycotting them).................... but sometimes i even feel that they are the most pitiable persons b'coz they are mentally very very sick.................... b'coz in my views one who can't progress and can't see others progress is mentally handicapped..................... such people are very dangerous to the society................
but strictly speaking such people should not matter a person who has set certain goals in life & always be behind them......&...
achieve them at any cost.................
2007-01-25 12:18:25 · answer #8 · answered by Reshu 18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to play hurdles.Jump over everybody and go ahead,do not look back.
2007-01-26 21:52:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree
Leave them behind and move ahead.
2007-01-25 10:27:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋