My best friend Melissa and my boyfriend Travis HATE eachother. I dont wanna lose either one!
2007-01-25 01:10:46 · 1 answers · asked by Chelsea Lee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi There,
This is a difficult situation because we all want the most important people in our lives to get along. There is no asy way about this. I would simply tell them both.. listen.. you may not like the other one. but I do.. and as my friend/ boyfriend.. if you respect me and care about me you will respect my decision to be friends/ or in a relationship with the other. If someone you are with is trying to choose your friends for you, I would rethink the relationship. Unless this friend is hurting you in some way. then he should respect youir choice of friends and allow you the freedom to be friends with whom you choose. It seems as if there is a rivalry going on between the 2 of them. The are both jealous because you are spending time with someone else. This is a typical situation when 2 girlfriends have been friends and then a guy comes into the picture. Reassue them both that they are still important to you, but that you need to be allowed to be friends with this other person and that you are allowed to have a boyfriend. Let Travis know that your friendship with Michelle is special and that if he cares about you he wont interfere. The same for Michelle. It all goes back to the old saying.. if you havent got anything nice to say.. dont say anything at all !!
2007-01-25 01:28:17 · answer #1 · answered by aurora1963_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to both of them. tell them wat ur feelings are. let them know dat. let them understand. friends are for life. boyfriend comes and goes.
2007-01-25 04:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by honey + biscuit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋