please tell me how is it that other men attract you.i mean you have exactly the same looking body as they do. Do you get excited looking at yourself naked as you would another man?
second is it not painful to have sex the way you do it , how is that enjoyable i can only imagine it being painful.Please don't be offended i'm really curious!!!!
2007-01-25 00:31:53 · 17 answers · asked by tommy h 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think that you are probably gay yourself but haven't come to terms with it.Am i right?
2007-01-26 02:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by miky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. Fortunately they don't all have the same looking body as me. Some are buff some are hairy some are muscular, some are petite, some are fat, others are thin.
2. I masturbate but that is not because I'm in love with my physical shape, it's because I have an imagination that I can fantasise doing things with others - putting my body to good use.
3. It's only painful if you don't do it right. Just as if you penetrate a woman before she is sufficiently aroused.
4. The sensations in nerve bundles around the anus and the sensation of massaging the prostate gland (accessible only from behind) are extremely satisfying and need have nothing to do with pain.
5. Have you never taken a surprisingly big dump? (sorry for being crude) after any initial pain from exertion did you not feel satisfied? Enough said.
2007-01-25 08:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Not all men have the exact same looking body - there's lots of diversity out there, and gay men aren't exempt from that. It's not that we like ALL men, including ourselves - we're attracted to men, and most men undoubtedly have a preference of what *kind* of guy. Kind of like straight men have a preference for a kind of girl. Also, it's an emotional attraction to men - looks aren't everything.
Not all gay men engage in anal intercourse (and keep in mind some straight men and women do too). But some do, and it should (like all sex acts) be done with time, patience and .. lubrication. It shouldn't hurt if it's done properly, unfortunately not everyone realizes that and accepts the idea that pain must be required. ANY sex act can and will hurt if it's done improperly, including vaginal penetration, oral sex, etc. and so on.
2007-01-25 08:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hi Im a girl and obviously have a female body I am not gay but I do think other womens bodies are absolutely gorgeous so can understand the reason for the men liking other mens bodies.
And the sex part doesnt sound so bad considering lots of women get it that way too, and its actually quite enjoyable! (so i hear lol )
Dont forget that men especially have all their nerve endings up their back passage so it is more pleasurable that way,
I know this is not the answere you were looking for as you were looking for a gay mans answer but I hope Ive helped xxx
2007-01-25 08:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
How do women attract you? No two people have the same looking body, each is different.
Do YOU get excited looking at yourself naked? I do, but hey, that's just me.
Painful sex is usually done by agreement (S&M) or its being done wrong.
2007-01-25 08:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by Black Dragon 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you discovered your prostate you'd know what gay sex is all about. Orgasms that last for ages, roll into one another, try it. Get your girlfriend to use a dildo on you, they like that.
The pleasure is so intense, she'll be scraping you off the ceiling, go on, have fun with your body. There are prizes for a tight ring at the Pearly Gates!.
2007-01-25 13:08:51 · answer #6 · answered by charterman 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
men are attracted to me much the same as hetrosexuals are attracted to each other. It's more than outward appearance, it's personality and character as well. Individuals who live an alternative lifestyle are people too, with the same likes and loves as everyone else.
But as for sex being painful....sex is only painful if it is done wrong.
2007-01-25 08:37:06 · answer #7 · answered by bluebettalady 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I am attracted to men with goatee, sexy smile and nice body. I have always taken care of myself so i like what I see when I look into the mirror. All men do not look the same. I love to have sex with my lover. I am versitile. Live your life to the fullest!
2007-01-25 09:54:36 · answer #8 · answered by beachguy_41 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What do you mean by "is it not painful to have sex the way you do it"??? This always really ticks me off. Why do straight guys always automatically think like straight guys? Why do you assume that someone is always the man and someone is always the woman? Have you no imagination? You need to think outside the box (no pun intended).
2007-01-25 08:44:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
First, all men are not the same and often it is the differences that guys are attracted to.
As for what we may or may not do in the bedroom. Who knows better what I guy really likes than another guy!
2007-01-25 08:42:24 · answer #10 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Look, we're gay because we're gay.
If you're not gay, then so be it. Leave well enough alone. We're still all human beings, we still all bleed the same blood, we all have to survive on a daily basis, we all have to pay our taxes and we all die the same ways.
So, we have different skin colors, different eye colors, some right with their right hands, some are left handed, some are tall, some are short, some are slim, some are fat, some are brunettes, some are blonds, some are redheads, some are grey/silver. Some of us like chocolate, some of us like vanilla, some of us like Broccoli and some like peanut butter.
Diversity is what makes life interesting. Celebrate it!
2007-01-25 08:39:03 · answer #11 · answered by DEATH 7 · 4⤊ 4⤋