i have had sex many times with my partner but i have never orgasmd. or i dont think i have. he alwayes asks me at the end if i came, and im like umm and dont know what to say. sex feels good sometimes but other times im just lying there and it dosnt really make me feel that good and i get bored as i really want the pleasure but i dont seem to have it. has anyone ever been in the same situation? and can anyone help please.. thanks x
2007-01-25 00:29:01 · 5 answers · asked by Eloise F 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
you'd know if you did have them x
when he asks the question be honest with him but not too brutal like 'it was really nice'. don't want to be too explicit but have you tried external stimulation? some women never orgasm through penetrative sex so concentrate on the outside first then you'll know what it is (there's nothing wrong with trying on your own first - it will probably help if you know your own body).
you shouldn't be bored during sex, try different positions and don't just go through the motions - it's for you as well as him.
good luck x
2007-01-25 21:15:34 · answer #1 · answered by aria 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used 2 be like u. firstly u'd know if u had experienced one, trust me. secondly, if u cant seem to achieve this with ur partner try by yourself first, this is the best way as u are on your own and totally relaxed, when ur with ur bloke u may feel a bit pressurised or nervous. just do what feels good and carry on, eventually u will get somewhere. after this u can tell ur bloke what feels good and exactly how u like it.
good luck
2007-01-26 02:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women find it very difficilt to orgasm thru sex alone.lots of foreplay and loads of attention to your clitorous may help. or u could try orgasming before intercourse,the rabbit from ann summers is a sure fire hit with all my pals.Believe me when u orgasm u know about it!!! Good luck.
2007-01-26 00:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by emma g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont have orgasms that much, most of the time when i do have sex with my boyfriend, i dont even ***, and im not bothed about it anyway, sometimes i say to myself will u hurry up please, i do get bored half way in sex.
2007-01-26 01:48:50 · answer #4 · answered by saralouise_uk2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would know if u had an orgasm trust me
2007-01-26 00:26:52 · answer #5 · answered by tinkerbell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋