i really need people on the medical field or who have been in the same situation to help me. i luv sex and enjoy with my guy.my problem is that i have never reached organism(it is stressing me coz i feel i should enjoy more when we come together with my bf. please advice.
2007-01-24 23:41:46 · 9 answers · asked by fantasy 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
that is called orgasm.......not organism
2007-01-24 23:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by Life Style 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i used to be the same - it took me years of having sex before i finally had an orgasm. you just need to stop worrying about it. maybe your partner could try differant things like positions or lubes (lubes are great BTW) it's such an amazing feeling when you and your partner come together but it doesn't have to just be penetritive sex that does it. experiment and see what works. good luck x
2007-01-25 00:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by snottercat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The correct/ most sensible answer is that if you are female, you need not attain orgasm to fully enjoy sexual encounters ; especially coitus. The emotional bond that such a union offers & the intense closeness will grant you all of the enjoyment you desire as a female. Don't stress yourself with expectations. Sexual unions are about the man achieving his NEED to ejaculate. Many times the sheer ecstacy that the female sees she has brought to the man & feeling his Penis ejaculate within her triggers her own emotions to an orgsmic peak.
2007-01-25 01:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by The kissman 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
A few priceless words of advise:
1. Don't think/wait to *** just go with it and enjoy
2. Get on top and not only go up and down but rub back and forth a LITTLE
3. Relax!
Enjoy!
2007-01-24 23:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I must for there to be satisfaction. Maybe women are different but I am sure it wouldn't hurt right?..Just help him out with ways that make you come and enjoy that sensation.
2007-01-24 23:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by fade_this_rally 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i get really pissed off if i dont get an organism during sex! just kidding, i get really pissed off if i dont ***. but i always do. i love being a man.
2007-01-25 00:39:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you mean "orgasm".
Ask your b/f to do more foreplay before actual sex ( penetration).
2007-01-25 00:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
just relax and enjoy
2007-01-24 23:46:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's orgasm, not organism.
2007-01-24 23:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋