i need lotsof help my parents beat me andif they found out itwould be the endof me i've hadto runaway like i am naw and im scared for meand my baby!? wat should i do im scared!?
2007-01-24 23:37:51 · 17 answers · asked by amy a 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Ok, you need to file a report with the police about your parents abuse. They will probably put you in a foster home and help you out until they get everything settled.
2007-01-24 23:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by Jo 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Oh boy you are in a tough situation poor thing. Please get some counselling as nobody can make this decision for you on a forum like this. You need professional guidance as you have another life at risk & having a baby is hard work for the most well equiped & mature mothers. Bringing up a well balanced child cannot be done alone by anybody, let alone another child. You are still a child yourself & probably need lots of understanding, comfort & reassurance. Obviously you cannot get this from home so please get some counselling asap. Best of luck sweetie.
2007-01-25 07:53:54 · answer #2 · answered by Mishell 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about how u can deal with a baby in ur life and how everything will change for u. No parents would want their child with a child of theirs so dont tell them now and think about what would be the best thing in ur mind. Dont listen to people paying u out if ur pregnant and ur young cuz u obviously weren't trying to get pregnant and its just something u will have to make a quick decision about before school starts and ur stomach starts to show for the world to know...
2007-01-25 07:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in a tight spot. I was lucky when I got pregnant at 17 yrs. old and my parents are great. You need to talk to someone like a doctor, social worker, or minister. All of them will be able to guide you the way you see fit. There is alot of help you can get without going to your parents. It is the law that they will have to be notified, however, first go talk to someone. Your local welfare office will be able to help, I think, the best. If you want to keep this baby- do it! NOBODY can make that decision for you. I hope everything works out for you like it did for me. Good luck!
2007-01-29 07:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by mother of 4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to a counsellor they will be able to talk you through what you are going through and what you are going to do. some religious groups offer free counselling(just find a non judgemental one) Also when you do tell your parents explain that you can still have a education. There are a few schools especially for teen mums. But go home or at least somewhere safe for you and your baby. Good luck
2007-01-25 07:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please go to a crisis pregnancy center right away. They can give you all the help you need, including a safe place to stay if necessary. You can find a crisis pregnancy center near you by calling 1-800-395-HELP or visiting http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp
Please continue to protect yourself and your baby. It is illegal for anyone to force you to abort your child. Stay strong for your baby's sake. He or she is depending on you. Here's some information that may help you:
Support for Pregnant Teens:
http://standupgirl.com/site/index.php
Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm
http://www.lifeissues.org/ultrasound/11weeks.htm
Photos and Video of Abortions, Including 1st Trimester Abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html
Abortion Stories:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html
http://www.teenbreaks.com/abortion/girlswhoaborted.cfm
Information on All Aspects of Abortion:
http://Abort73.com
Advice on Telling Parents About a Pregnancy:
http://lifehouse.glorifyjesus.com/questions/pregnancy/tellingparents.html
You can do the right thing.
2007-01-27 19:17:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew a girl back in highschool that was beaten into a coma at 17 by her father when he found out she was pregnant, then they took her off life suport the day after she turned 18 (yea, she lost her baby)
DO NOT GO HOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! it sounds like your safe at your boy friends house, stay there but talk with the police so they know your situation, and if YOU think it would be unsafe do not go home!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-25 07:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You earned the right and deserve to be scared.
If you do not give it up for adoption you need to accept the fact that your life will never, ever be the same.
IF, and I say "if" your parents beat you there are resources to help you. First one that may come to mind is 911!
A 14 year old is in no way capable of raising a child in the proper way!
Learn from your past mistakes.
2007-01-25 07:47:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to get to a women's shelter right away. It's not normal for your parents to physically abuse you.
If you want to keep your baby, the people at a women's shelter can help you find a place to stay, and they will keep your parents from physically hurting you. They will provide the medical care that you and your unborn child need.
Open up the phone book and look up "women's shelter", then find a way to get there.
Good luck - what you're going through isn't going to be easy, but you will get through it if you get the right help.
2007-01-25 07:45:07 · answer #9 · answered by annieohbee 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell someone right now that your parents beat you! I would get out of that right now because I don't think that you want to put your baby through the same things that you have been going through. Don't tell you parents yet, till you get moved out of there. Be strong you will get through this.
2007-01-25 07:46:59 · answer #10 · answered by Hot Momma 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋