what can i do with his family?
2007-01-24 23:36:32 · 10 answers · asked by Mina M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
we're almost in the same situation..i dont feel anything bad towards his family,,,no matter what,they are his family and by loving someone you will unconditionally give your widest understanding...so just respect what they believe and continue your love with him...as long as he loves you and you love him then..nothing and no one can stop you both...listen to your heart..pray and stay happy..life is too short
2007-01-24 23:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by freeverse 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What makes you think that they are racists? And is this his entire family or just some of his family?
Love your guy, love his family. They are his family and have been a part of his life for way longer than you have. So you take the good with the bad. Your choice if this is acceptable to you.
2007-01-25 07:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The thing that you should be asking is thie relationship go to that special place,(marriage)? For one it sounds like his family needs to grow-up. There is no place here for racism in this world. My wife is Caucasian and I'm Hispanic, one of her grandfathers felt the same way about us dating. I'm happy to say that we've been happily married to four years. What we had to do was sit down and come to the understanding that we loved one another and we were going to have each other. Now her family and I get along. Hope you continue to follow your heart if you are happy with him. Best wishes
2007-01-25 07:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by ben27hernandez 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The most important thing is how you feel about your boyfriend and how he's been treating you. Do you find that his family opinion affects him so much? If it doesn't, just ignore it. You are going out with him, not his family.
2007-01-25 08:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by ranselbiru 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People will have many ways of answering this question, though it can be answered from many perspective. The dynamics of this question clearly focus on how you percieve things. Just keep in mind, that you cannot force people to believe, let them learn from the journey they took. Enjoy you time with your bf and dont worry about other people.
2007-01-25 07:44:43 · answer #5 · answered by ewf e 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you likely to have kids together? What would they think of them? For now, talk to your boyfriend and get him to talk to them. If that doesn't work, ignore the scum.
2007-01-25 07:43:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
buy them all white gowns and hoods next year for Christmas
2007-01-25 07:40:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well that pretty much sucks. either confront the parents or just tell your partner about how they are and maybe he will talk to them.
2007-01-25 07:40:43 · answer #8 · answered by Jon C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ignore them...literally, just don't go over there and see them and have him not go over there if they say anything racist.
2007-01-25 07:40:09 · answer #9 · answered by fade_this_rally 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
poor u...... :-((( ask ur bf to talk to them
2007-01-25 07:40:25 · answer #10 · answered by merlyntn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋