I have known a man for 4 yrs We were bf/gf but have been friends for over a year I lent him £12000 while he was a student and when he got work he started to repay me Now he needs to marry as his visa expires at the end of March He tried paying women to marry him None accepted He met a Polish girl in november & told he he loves her and she has accepted his proposal of marriage even tho she knows he needs a visa Now she has said that he cant talk to me anymore or she will leave him I think he has used me and its him that is getting her to say he cant talk to me anymore I think he is using her for a visa too but she belives its love! He had a student visa for 3 years but now he has a 6 month holiday visa At the moment he is working here illegally using a fake french passport
My Question is shall I inform immigration and have him removed or just forget him?
2007-01-24 23:27:52 · 6 answers · asked by maryjane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just forget about him. After all you were friends before
2007-01-24 23:37:39 · answer #1 · answered by Sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question to you is, what is your reason for wanting to turn him in to immigrations? Is it because you are reporting a wrong, or is it because you feel you were done wrong? Chances are, you might be heaping more troubles for yourself by reporting him for whatever your reasons are. If he were involved in a wrong doing that could cause harm, then yes, report it. But if what he is doing is an illegally action that involves his personal actions, then I would just walk away and mark it up for a good lesson learned. Lending money without a written note drawn up can be hard enough to collect. But to lend it to a "Friend or Family" member is another issue all together. My motto: Never lend to a Friend or Family member that you can't afford to walk away from" Consider yourself lucky that you didn't lose more. Good Luck..
2007-01-25 07:44:35 · answer #2 · answered by Karen H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you tell Romeo there that you will be happy to end all contact with him when he takes out a loan and pays you back the money he owes.
Tell him with one phone call to the INS, you could make his life real complicated if he does not comply.
2007-01-25 08:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Cynthia D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. Not all are like that. And if the two of you were such good friends ,then why are you airing his illegalities??
2007-01-25 07:41:01 · answer #4 · answered by breeze279755 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry him until you get all your money paid back then divorce him, don't let him get away with this he used you harshly.
2007-01-25 07:42:38 · answer #5 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget him and carry on with ur life.
2007-01-25 07:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by kudos_009 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋