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We are in a changing world of reality. We happen to be rejoiced whenever we experience the positive sides of reality. Never we might have expected what contentment it brings to everyone of us when we face sudden triumph, as winning in a lottery, contests, and other prized stakes - all but WINNING, or simply just receiving blessings from Him, that can really CHANGE our lives in a very meaningful way. But how do we become aware of the other side of reality? When we happen to experience sudden failures, as losing money, breaking up with girlfriends/boyfriends, being victims of calamities, that can AFFECT also our lives to the point we are to lose hope. How positive you are when you are on the negative side of reality? How eager you are when you know triumph is ahead of you, but least expect things to happen. Do you believe in "Expect the Unexpected" saying?Citing experiences are highly appreciated and very helpful. Thank you very much. Good day to all of you...

2007-01-24 23:21:50 · 4 answers · asked by bunyan830 1 in Social Science Psychology

4 answers

The universe (or god) never throws at us what we can not handle.
It is us and us alone that convinces ourselves that we cannot go on and that everything is terrible.

We need to change our perceptions.
When something bad happens to me, i try to focus on all the positive that can come out of it, and positive things generally start to happen.

I find that when I focus on all the negatives that have happened and the more that may come, then more does come... and it is unending until I change my view.

We make our destiny. The universe (or god) provides the multiple pathways for us to lay our feet.... it is us who chooses which one to follow.

Keep a positive outlook..... At worst, it will only make you feel better about yourself and your life.

2007-02-01 22:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by originalpuppycat 2 · 0 0

The other day,running behind as usual, I got a flat tire. DARN-IT !
I don't have time for this ! Why me God?
While I was changing the tire,I noticed What looked like a dollar bill on the side of the road. I leaned over and grabbed it. It wasn't a dollar bill, it was a hundred dollar bill!
Cool huh?

2007-02-01 12:09:46 · answer #2 · answered by boatworker 4 · 0 0

When the bad things start occurring, it could mean ur priorities are not in order. What truly is the most important thing to you? Have you stopped doing what u used to do & what u should do or be doing? Ur attitude towards everything is all important. Many things we may not be able to help, but we do have control over HOw WE'RE GOING TO ACCEPT THE THINGS WE CAN'T CHANGE. wE DO HAVE CONTROL OVER OUR OWN ATTITUDES, OR WE SHOULD.

2007-01-31 23:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by nomutilation4me 2 · 0 0

my perception is that everything is constantly changing. and yes, expect the unexpected, absolutely.

2007-01-25 13:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by the Bruja is back 5 · 0 0

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