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I just wanted to understand psyche behind homosexual mind. For example are gays attracted toward men because of their musculine personality(psychological) or because they like musculine organ and dislike body of woman. In the same way for lesbian they do like woman because of their womanly personality(psychological) or because they don't like men's organ and only woman body.
In short, are homsexuals attracted towards psychological personality of same sex or physical peronality. I hope I made it clear.
Its possible that they are attracted towards both. But, primary cause must be either of this. Which one is primary attraction.

2007-01-24 23:04:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

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If you are not gay, then consider what heterosexuals find attractive in the opposite sex. What do you look for? A sexy body for sex but for a relationship a compatibility based on personality? Is there one thing that takes precedence one over the other?

Your question needs refining. You cannot ask a question of a group where it is the individual and not the concensus that holds sway. Further you haven't defined the purpose of the attraction.

2007-01-24 23:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0 0

As with any person coupled with an activated and working sexuality (as some people are asexual or just uninterested in other people, for emotional or other reasons), I think it rests more in simple attraction, which tends to begin as a combination of physical and social characteristics, that is, "I think this person is cute and has a sweet, charming, nice personality." There're always downfalls to every person's personalities, but I'm sure homosexuals, heterosexuals, bisexuals aren't different in the way they perceive personality or outward social traits. Essentially what I'm saying is, even if a man dates a man, it doesn't mean he'll completely understand him, even if they both belong to the same gender. All people are different. But, yes, I think it begins with physical qualities and moves into something more spiritual. (Of course it's also chemically-based, as homosexuals have the attraction to others of their gender for biological reasons, such as the reaction to pheromones.)

2016-05-23 21:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

I like both the psychological and physical features of a woman. I have many male friends; both gay and straight; however I do not find them in any way sexually attractive.

My personal opinion is that the psychological personality of a woman is what attracts me the most. I honestly don't care about looks seeing I have dated and still am dating a "butch" female and that usually is not my taste.

2007-01-25 03:13:09 · answer #3 · answered by Scully 6 · 0 0

Fausto, you are so thick you cant even spell The HOLY bible correctly so shut it.
As ive said before, I agreewith the first answer to this question. You are asking a question that is too general. Its like saying what attracts men to women is it their legs or their eyes? People are attrcated to someone just beacause they are. Its an incontrolable feeling... its not just one thing, we are same as straight women and men, I ate that people talk like we are another species. But I do like that you want to be educated and I hope more people get curious instead of living in ignorance.

2007-01-24 23:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by Sophie 3 · 0 0

It's a bit of both - physical AND psycological. I like the way a woman's mind works over a man's. (Please don't take offense!) Women are generally more compassionate than men.
I like the softness of a woman's body as opposed to the hardness of a man's. I like that I know how she works sexually, and that it's the same way I work. It's a body and soul companionship.

2007-01-24 23:26:08 · answer #5 · answered by Angelpaws 5 · 0 0

i have a boyf but only cos i cant find a girl who has the personality that i need, i find womens bodies more attractive, for no particular reason, and i find most men to be just jerks

2007-01-25 00:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I believe the words you were looking for were: Masquline and Feminine.

I'm attracted to whatever attracts me, her body, her sence of humor, the fact that she makes me "tingle."

Since I'm actually bisexual, I can say the same for some men as well. Although I don't usually have as strong emotional bonds with men as I do women.

2007-01-25 00:34:30 · answer #7 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0 3

Being a big flaming homosexual myself, I can say that there's all shades of us baby. Some gay dudes like butch gay dudes, and other gay dudes like femme gay dudes. It's just a matter of preference- For example, some guys like tomboy and athletic girls, while others like very dainty effeminate ones.

The only difference is one little chromosome.

2007-01-24 23:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4 0

There is NO one answer or right answer. Everyone has their own tastes.

Personally I am attracted to all male hormoes !

2007-01-25 00:15:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

i'm straight/ have bisexual urges . i love women because they are beautiful and more nice. men they are good looking i guess their body shape.

2007-01-24 23:28:43 · answer #10 · answered by mike 3 · 0 0

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