Why do some men cheat and think they can get away with it?....?

Question

The rate at which this happening is too alarming and people claim that's how they are,they will always come back to you as the wife, why are they never satisfied,i really want to know please

Answer 1

i dunno y guys cheat....i would never cheat but i know i'm not like most guys out there....also girls cheat just as much if not more ya know...dunno i'm sorry though if someone cheated on u....that sux.

Answer 2

There is a saying in my book and that is some men do and some men don't, those that do will always do it, they know no other way for them it is there way of boosting their obviously very low ego, they will promise you it was a one off it will never happen again but it will cause if they don't get the attention of other women they although won't admit feel ugly and unatractive, other men cheat simply for the chase they like to know they can get what they have set out to get again boosting the ego. the sad thing is these men usually have really good pretty wives or girlfriends I have lost count of the amount of times I have known men to cheat on really good women, and of course they always come back to the wife cause they know where their bread is buttered thats why more women need to forget the I will give you another chance bit and end it at the first hurdle maybe only then when men really realise they are gonna loose the best thing in their life will they stop.

Answer 3

I am not sure it is just guys who cheat. I thinkit is some people in general. I havelearned recently that it can just take a very poor decision at the wrong place at the wrong time to turn soemone into a cheater. I think you have to look at it case by cae. If it is someone who hads doen this repeatedly, they are looking for something different and get dbored and should not be in a committed relationship. The only reason they are staying married is becasue they enjoy the sneaking around and are trying o make others think the y are something they are not. But, there are people who have just made a mistake, but they usually can't go back and love the spous like they did before.

Answer 4

Because they often do get away with it.I know a woman who's husband is a serial womanizer she falls too pieces every time he's caught out( with one of the 2-3 hes seeing at the same time, that she doesn't know about) but takes him back every time.She gives him a hard time for a few days,then sets about making sure shes "keeping" her man by being up for more sex,not nagging so much,buying him little treats,reminding him how much she loves ,needs and can't live without him.She focuses her efforts on hating the other woman,and he encourages this by also berating her and making her out to be this evil temptress,and she falls for it every time duh !,he does this to distract her attention from the fact he still has another 1- 2 on the go,and is a little more cautious for a week or two.and she feels like shes won some kind of "battle" with the other woman to keep this numpty.It's common knowledge amongst the people in the small community where they live,that he's still seeing other women at the same time,but they have long since given up trying to tell her about them,and although they know about it they turn a blind eye. They are sick of listening too her going on about the "other woman" and what a *****/whore/home wrecker etc that she is every time he's found out, and her cries of woe now fall on deaf ears.Personally forgiving someone once would be a big issue,I would maybe try and make a big effort to understand why it happened,in time i might even try to forgive but i know i'd never forget.But theres no way i could live life as if i was stuck in groundhog day.He does it because there are no consequences that he considers bad enough to stop.How she can think he "loves" her when he can watch her go through that pain time after time I can't understand.In my opinion, hes there because he dosn't want too give up the comforts of home,and why should he when he's having his cake and eating too.It's nothing to do with love.

Answer 5

Please be fair: Not only men, but women cheat as well.

Anyway, cheaters get away with what they do because their partners let them cheat by do not letting their cheating partners face the consequences! They think (including me, in the past) that will not happen again, and that it was only a once off mistake - and they take back their cheatng partner, forgiving them again. Over and over again, while they know their partner is not to be trusted.

The cheating partner concludes from this that cheating isnt such a big deal, and that he / she doesnt have to worry about his partner levaing as he / she has stayed put in the past.

People who are beng cheated upon also have a responsibility, and that is to take firm measures instead of behaving like a victim when Mr / Mtrs Wrong cheats for the zillionth time.

Answer 6

have you heard of the saying -"have your cake and eat it too?" well, it can apply to this. for some reason wives today think or have been trained to believe that they must take everything their spouse dishes out to them. well, young ladies - hear this - you don't have to.

men are satisfied most of the time. part of their satisfaction must come from within, just like happiness. they stray from the mrs. because they feel it is their right to do so. no integrity there. they stray because they think that is what they are supposed to do - either because that is what their father did, or perhaps they had no male figure in their life or because his friends call him a wuss because he initially said no.

there are a myriad of reasons why men cheat. someone is not teaching them at a very young age that this is unacceptble behavior. wives must tell them as well. don't settle for less than that which you are due.

sad commentary on marriage.

Answer 7

Men cheat because they know they will get away with it, How many woman end a relationship because their partner has cheated? not many. They try to continue and look at themselves and why the man has cheated. They see it as a failure to admit that their relationship is not what thought it was and try to work at making it better next time. A man will cheat on a woman everytime if he has no respect for her, he'll cheat on her even more once he gets away with it.

Answer 8

I think in some cases ( and most I've known) the wife has to look in the mirror honestly. A wife can contribute to the cheater wanting to cheat. Sometimes its entirely due to a wife not taking care of her husband.

Now now...dont get all upset with me for saying this. I realize there are habitual cheaters no matter what a wife does or doesnt do.

Answer 9

Firstly, might I say that I have never cheated.

I think its genetic, a cast off from prehistoric man, man would have sex with multiple women in a bid to ensure that his genetic code would survive. (this still happens in the animal kingdom)

This is now socially unacceptable by today's standards, but being a guy I can understand that if a woman is more than willing, that it is kind of hard for a guy to turn it down.

In this day and age of women being sexually liberated, it does make it harder for guys to ignore the instinct to go and reproduce.

I'm not trying to make excuses for cheating men. I am personally against it, but you did ask for our opinions..

Answer 10

Cheating is about the chase and the suspense of doing wrong and not getting caught. Not only do men do this so do women. Men are made to hunt and they just haven't satisfied the hunting instinct.

Answer 11

It's fair to say that both sexes are as bad as each other for this. I have just discover my husband is cheating on me with a woman who is also married with a young family.
My husband condones his behaviour and explains it by saying that in his mind he had ended our marriage but had forgotten to tell me!!!!!!!!!!
He has now chosen her over me and his children, whereas she, is still living the lie at home - having here cake and eating it.
So, in this instance I would say she is the cheat who thinks she will get away with it.
Oh and for the record - this is the 3rd time he has cheated so BEWARE - cheats never change.