The present conventional marriage has turned out to be some kind of business transaction between the relatives of the partners. There is no emotional attachment between partners and everything goes on mechanically, without any feeling or bonding . Why is this so ?
2007-01-24 22:39:50 · 12 answers · asked by george p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to go back and look at what attracted you to your spouse in the first place and try to ignite the flame again. Not all marriages are like that, I know many couples who have been married for years and one would just die without the other.
Find time to bond with your spouse, make it a point to do a weekly or monthly activity or get-away together. Marriage is also a job, you have to make it work.
2007-01-24 22:57:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every marriage has positive and negative aspects. No marriage on the earth is cent percent successful. The attitude towards the marital life will make the same a success or flop. If you have the mind to accept the individuality of your partner,his/her freedom of thought, his/her bondage with their siblings and parents,treatment and approach as your partner in all aspects, you can lead a satisfactory married life. You both are responsible for a good or bad married life.even if itis a bad marriage,you will be gaining the experience of a family life by entering into a marriage.so in my opinion a bad marriage is ofcourse better than no marriage.
2007-01-25 06:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by VP K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about one specific marriage or marriage in general?
If you’re talking about marriage in general, then where do you live? In the U.S. a marriage certainly is not a “of business transaction between the RELATIVES of the partners”
If you’re talking about one specific marriage, well...a “business transaction” has NOTHING to do with “feelings or bonding”
2007-01-25 08:19:56 · answer #3 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you saw is an exception ! In fact No marriage is better than a bad marriage! In most cases marriages are with deep bondage.
2007-01-25 11:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by Alrahcam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is what you make of it therefore a matrimonial alliance is subject to your interpersonal relationship and mutual understanding. no marriage can be determined good or bad unless you have tasted the fruit of marriage
2007-01-28 01:23:01 · answer #5 · answered by Wg.Cdr Sunil Lal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is far better to be alone than live in unhappiness. marriage without any feeling is no good and can't ever work. guess in certin cultures this is how they still do things, but it is wrong.
2007-01-25 07:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather be alone and happy than miserable and in a bad marriage.
2007-01-25 07:25:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya ur right the marriages r done so.....bt after marriage u shud realise that ur life is in enyway bond vit that person so its better u luv them, its better to try n liv in harmony.
2007-01-25 08:25:37 · answer #8 · answered by Ramya R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it better not to be married than have a bad marriage.
2007-01-25 07:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not like that in my house.....I would rather be alone then in a bad marriage...
2007-01-25 06:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋