hey everyone..i have this problem with a girl,whom i had a crush for,and it got stupid,and silly..i was obsesed a short period over her,she noticed and ignored me like she say`d "for my good" well i did,i thought about it and i`m over it for about 1month didn`t spoke to her
but yesterday some girls noticed me to come to dance classes again cause i didn`t went for 3 weeks..i forgot about it kinda,and didn`t went becouse of her
now i`m good but if i go i will not be natural,and act not like myself and she will notice that]eventhou i don`t feel nothing,it is a relationship that is good as friends to remain,but i don`t think it`s going to work..
2007-01-24 22:32:23 · 8 answers · asked by thirst of knowing 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i went in there with confidence ,and didn`t have contact almost at all with her.it isn`t over...thanks for opinions..
2007-01-26 05:17:18 · update #1
get over it.
2007-01-24 22:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Frined realtionships can last a lot longer if you put some work into it. But cos of your histroy you might have trouble being in the same room. But if you relationship as a frined last's.... well you might just get back with her. this might not be the advice you wanna hear but once you have someone never let them go... love can only come once in some lifes.... so just grab hold of her and never let her go.
good luck ;)
2007-01-25 06:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by Time is nigh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop focusing on what she's going to think & don't let her still control your life. Just be yourself, show her that you're over it & be civil with her as a mature adult would. The other girls have asked you to go so that in itself should boost your confidence. Life's too short to get humg up on what others think - show her you're mature & well over it.
2007-01-25 07:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by EmmaB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her, act cool, flirt with the other women, and pretend she's not there. But when you see her looking at you be very friendly saying hello. She's going to end up chasing after you if she thinks you are over her, confident, and other women are interested.
2007-01-25 06:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1- Smoke a lot
2- Drink Coke with olive oil
3- Dance "Love is in the air" wearing just a banana leaf
4- Paint your house as the Confederate flag
5- Take no advices from a fool
2007-01-25 06:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by pestilpen3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk with her and be mature about it.....see her in another environment...not just at the dance class...if you have the hots for her...dont be shy....tell her....ask her if she would like to go for dinner or a walk....how old are you? love when you are young canbe just as intense as love when you are older...
Brock, 48
Vancouver, Canada
2007-01-25 06:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by cbmaclean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to ignore n also try to stop urself becoz u cannot stop ur life for someone
2007-01-25 06:51:27 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To solve a problem like this,it´s the best way to talk.Be honest to her and to yourself.Tell her about your emotions and ask her for her´s.And give yourself time-both of you.
2007-01-25 07:01:12 · answer #8 · answered by Fritz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋