more successful in going to parties.. what i will attending is a party wherein i don't know anyone...please help...even the one i am with, we hardly know each other....this is complusory coz this is like our company's acquaintance party.
2007-01-24 22:29:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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2007-01-24 22:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by freestylez85 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to be the same way...to the exact but I am over it now and you could be to. My advice and answer to this is you are a great person and you should never deny yourself a good time. Go to the party and remmeber that saying. Talk to everyone you come in contact with. make sure you are yourself and you do not over due it. People love people who can mingle with just about any type of person..gay, straight or whatever. Do not sweat it if someone is not as responsive as you that means they will not have as good of time as you. Keep this all in mind and go in with positive combat on and I bet you will meet a lot of cool new people. Good luck my friend it will be fun......trust me comming from someone who had to break out of her shell.
2007-01-25 06:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question would have been better being posted in Etiquette. However a few tips for you.
Don't drink more than a couple of glasses of wine/beer - barely enough to relax you.
Make the effort to engage in conversation - doesn't have to be more than "Hi I'm Armyleen_rivera, how do you do? I like your [item of clothing/accessory] where did you get it?"
Don't let pregnant pauses build up with the person to whom you're speaking, instead say something like "Okay, pleasure meeting you I'm going to mingle/go to the bar/ powder my nose..." and move onto another person with whom to repeat.
Most of all, give the impression that you're at ease by not standing rigid and with eyes like a rabbit caught in headlights. Instead walk slowly, relax your shoulders and smile.
2007-01-25 06:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile, be social, talk to everyone. Join in conversations, make the first move.. Be arroachable, dont look uncomfortable, as this sometimes looks like you dont want to be there.. Be chatty but dont be over confident. Ask people about their likes/dislikes. Talk about current affairs, engage in healthy discussion. But most importantly laugh, stay sober, engage with strangers etc.... Good luck x x x x x
2007-01-25 06:48:46 · answer #4 · answered by Sophie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋