When my boyfriend and I are having sex it hurts. I've had other partners before him and it never hurt. But because it hurts so bad I am really hesitant to have sex at all. Any suggestions to reduce the discomfort and make it more enjoyable for the both of us?
2007-01-24 22:01:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Buy some lube, or a jar of peanut butter (creamy of course)
2007-01-24 22:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by JMBC 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋
K Y Jelly
Baby Oil
Olive Oil
Fore Play
vibrator
You Need to Relax
2007-01-24 22:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a medical check up to make sure you have nothing wrong with you before you do anything else. Then invest in a good lube and see if that helps;
2007-01-24 22:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by huggz 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Have you tried lubricants like KY jelly? That's what they're for. WARNING: Don't use Vaseline if you're using condoms as contraception because it destroys the rubber.
2007-01-24 22:05:42 · answer #4 · answered by future_man_uk 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
which hole is being used for sex?
obviously a penis doesn't fit in your nostril or ear hole. an eye socket would hurt. dryness trying to enter the exit would hurt.
are you a boy?
2007-01-24 22:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
lube and lots of erm that thing you do before sex iv forgotten the word you know when you mess around turning each other on, that one do that a lot.
2007-01-24 22:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by blakorkid 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Involve in more foreplay.
2007-01-25 00:17:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
comunicate with your boy friend and give him a direction to do the right move
2007-01-24 22:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by Unggul 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please try to understand that nowadays attitude towards s_x it is shameful...I think that because you're hurt you'll learn something.
Please try to do something you forget to do...try to pray, try to talk with the ONE that gave you life and turn to HIM, you'll be a new person...sorry if i hurt your feelings...HE loves you and is waiting for you!
Love you, too!
2007-01-24 22:11:09 · answer #9 · answered by tatal_nostru2006 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋