2007-01-24 21:22:02 · 13 answers · asked by tina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know, sometimes the smallest understanding can turn into a major drama.... But - really if they are your true friends they would try and sort it out with you....and you ask your friend how you have upset them, or what is wrong. At least then you have tried to sort it out. Sometimes it really is the stupidest things that ruin friendships, and I know it does hurt. So try and sort it out with your friend, and best of luck......
2007-01-24 22:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously they are not a good friend to begin with if you fall out or the friendship changes from a small misunderstanding. Yes, it does hurt, but life must go on. Think of it this way, it's best that they are not a part of your life if they are going to fall out with you over something trivial, what about when times get tough? Would they support you as a friend? Good friends are far and few between.
2007-01-24 21:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Misunderstanding Between Friends
2016-11-02 23:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether you are sure they are being decieved or not. Here is an example of what I have gone through. Millions of people are "Purpose Driven Life" followers, not knowing that Mr. Warren is a student of A Course in Miracles which is a New Age bible so to speak. He quotes a lot of New Age leaders. So many believe him to be this wonderful Christian leader. But he is decieving many whether he realizes it or not. I have gently tried to share this with friends that think he is OK. Only a few have actually looked into it for themselves. The rest wouldn't even listen to any of it as soon as they realized it was negative. The thing is, we can share in a gentle way. Now, they may not listen, but it is our job to share when we have important information. Kind of like warning someone before they are about to step off a cliff. They may or may not listen, but we are at fault if we don't share what we can see and they can't.
2016-03-18 00:43:18 · answer #4 · answered by Kristin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
misunderstanding crops up between friends, because we expect something in a friendship. Even small misunderstanding is magnified and it hurts the other party. Maybe better communication, can reduce the chances of misunderstanding.
2007-01-24 22:12:26 · answer #5 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is lack of communication and Ego coming into play. Misunderstandings are common everywhere. But, when you are quick in your apologies and ready to forgive, it becomes a passe.
Its only when each one thinks its the other's fault and are too egostic to be the first to make up, does it change people and relationships.
2007-01-24 23:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by Magnamia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had felt that too...and that really hurts...It seems like we're now alone in this huge world. First say sorry directly to him/her, and see their reaction..If he/she forgives u, than thats fine...altough maybe ur relationship will be kinda weird for a while..if apologize doesn't work, maybe he/she is not good enough for u...U should find another friend..there are billlions people in this world that can be ur newe good friends! Think positive! Good Luck!
2007-01-24 21:32:46 · answer #7 · answered by nonisu_9591 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bec of immaturity of friendship and maybe even it is a small matter for you,it maybe a sensitive issue for the other one.You know there are sometimes what we call"touchy" or soft spot that may seem nothing to others but matters to us a lot.I hope you talk it out with your friend.Let your friend know that you are sorry and you want to correct things with her or him..
2007-01-24 21:32:45 · answer #8 · answered by ranya j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts when good friends change because for many years they are close to us and suddenly they change and mis behave.
2007-01-24 21:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes its hurt
so chose your friends
good luck
2007-01-24 21:43:26 · answer #10 · answered by huntush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋