Iam 25 year old ,. i married 2 years ago. I have a 1 year old baby. after 6 months of delivery i had a chest pain .I have block in my heart. Now having high steriods ,because of the side effects of medicine my face become puffy and lot of facial hairs. now iam staying with my parents. because doctor adviced me to take rest. Now husband dont want me and he dont give money to my baby and for my medical expenses. My hus says u r MCA graduate u go and earn for the baby and medical expenses. Now i dont want this husband because he dont come to hospital when iam sick and not looking after his baby. Why i need such a husband. please give me answer to solve my problem
2007-01-24 21:13:01 · 12 answers · asked by anupama g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He don't want you nor you want him then better you two take divorce & lead a separate life. As far as kid is concerned you can always claim his/her custody as well maintenance from him, anytime even during your divorce proceedings. You can also claim permanent alimony & maintenance for your self also. My best advice is you two apply for divorce by mutual consent & end this episode now itself.
2007-01-25 00:33:20 · answer #1 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel so sorry for u .u should think yourself as a lucky person that u are so well qualified,you can have a good job and look after your child too. so many women can' t leave their husbands because they don't have any educational qualification and continue to live all their life like doormats. you defintely don't need him around. what sort of a person he is to leave you when you need him the most. right now i think your health is most important to you and your child. don't strain yourself thinking a lot.get better first.if your parents or family can help you out for the treatment well and good.once you start working you can always repay them.you can talk to a good lawyer abt divorce and file. he is not worth giving a second chance also.good luck to you. some of the women's organisations in your area too might help.get in touch with them.
2007-01-24 21:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by tina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like your husband has heart problem too - he is heartless! Chuck him out of your life. If he doesn't even want to take up responsibility for the child, then chuck him out of the child's life too. What you need to do is: rest well, get well, support yourself and your child, rebuild your life. You are only 25, you are educated, with restored health and proper planning, you will definitely have a bright future for yourself and your child.
2007-01-24 21:44:21 · answer #3 · answered by bzpple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should go to the court...he's not good enough for u. Now don't think about Ur husband all the time. Think more about Ur futUre and ur baby. Ur baby still needs u! So make some quick decision and act fast! don't be afraid..stay strong! u can do it..But don't neglect Ur health too..U should take care of Ur self
2007-01-24 21:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by nonisu_9591 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe that a real live mature husband would act this way. You need to solve one problem at a time--first get better and get rested. You and your health are the most important--forget the husband troubles for now--just ignore them. When you are all better seek legal advice and ask about all these issues. please remain calm and it will eventually work out--Terribly sorry to hear about what happened.
2007-01-24 21:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Anupama.....
Im sorry to hear such a plight.....
If he is doing such acts with you then he is truly not accpeting the traditional values and above all he is behaving inhuman......
At this point of time he should support and cooperate with u by all means.....
Well as a brither I can advise you be patience, keep yourself cool...Do not argue or fight else it will affect ur health and u may not be able to take care of urself and poor baby....
I think, if u are able to take advise from Doctor and start working then I think u will b able to support yourself and baby......
If I can be of ur help and support , so please let me know.....Take me as your brother Anupama.....
Anis (anis_rehman1@yahoo.com)
2007-01-24 21:24:42 · answer #6 · answered by Annu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 05:45:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) be glad that the bastard is gone.
2) divorce his ***!!
3) sue him for alimony and child support.
4) not to mention shelter clause in your divorce decree.(he has to make sure that you and baby have a place to live!!!
i could go on and on!!! get with your lawyer. if he's worth what you pay him, you can get all these things and more!!!
2007-01-24 21:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by afreeca812 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u go to any charitable medical hospitol like sathya sai hospital in puttaparthy.after u get well u chose a job for u and takecare of ur child,then leave ur hasband
2007-01-26 02:51:48 · answer #9 · answered by vn t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a heart problem and he should help you and stick by you and your baby! I think he is totally heartless and you should get the law on him to force him to help you!
2007-01-24 21:20:23 · answer #10 · answered by saau2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋