Fighting for access to my kids goes into overdrive from next tuesday (30th) I'm gunna live up to this name a friend chose for me for the sake of my 2 beautiful little boys. Is it a bird? Is it a plane? No its SuperDAD FIGHTING FOR HIS KIDS. WISH ME LUCK and thank you all for your inputs its helped fire me up. To all other dads please don't give up hope. Finally, To Conor & Joel, Daddy loves you to bits, Be strong Daddy will NEVER give up on you both XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2007-01-24 21:00:49 · 14 answers · asked by SuperDAD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I had a massive battle in court12 years ago. I won. I was dressed smartly, I held my head high, and I told the court what I wanted regarding time with my daughter. I put down two weekends a month with sleepover, and two Wednesdays after school for two hours for tea with Dad. The Judge suggested that this was generous access. I did not think so. As the years have passed my daughter increased our time together because she wanted to see more of her dad. Her mother didn't like it but she had to get used to it. Guess what? My daughter now lives with me and my wife(step mom) Her legs did the talking as soon as she was old enough. Best advice to you is: Be there for them whenever you can, and don't say bad things about their mother to them. Kids hate that. Don't over question your kids about their life with their mother. Kids hate that. Make your quality time with them count for something. Kids love that. Last of all Your kids should not know any of the details surrounding the court case. It will damage them and it will hurt them deep inside. That bit is for adults. Good luck to you and don't lose your credibility in court. Her solicitor/barrister will be out to get you worked up. Don't fall for it. Remain calm and composed no matter what he throws at you.
2007-01-24 21:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the very best of luck to you. Conor & Joel are 2 lucky little boys to have such a devoted daddy. I hope it all works out for you xxxxx
2007-01-25 05:05:34 · answer #2 · answered by starlet108 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck Chief!
In a world where a lot of Dads which have been seperated from their familys couldnt give 2 hoots, its good to see that there is still some decent chaps out there. (were a rare breed now!). you obviously love your kids very much, and I hope that you get what you want..
Best wishes mate!
2007-01-25 05:08:55 · answer #3 · answered by jeffers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck Superdad! and to Conor & Joel - you have a fab dad!
2007-01-25 05:14:00 · answer #4 · answered by blue_sapphire07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you get access to your children. I grew up with 1 parent absent i and i know the heartache it causes. Also my children have grown up with me being there sole parent, i know they miss there dad a hell of a lot and he chooses not to see them, its been 14yrs now since he last contacted them. I wish you all the luck in the world and im sure you are as proud as your sons as they are proud of you. xxxxx
2007-01-25 05:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by spensmum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck to you ...
most men dont want to know ....shows what a true man should be like
i would never stop my kids dads from seeing them ..if your ex is doing that then she giving the rest of us a bad name
2007-01-25 11:49:12 · answer #6 · answered by cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well done dad
when my husband and i had a fall out and he walked out
I NEVER STOPPED SEEING HIS KIDS after all he had the pleasure of putting them there so why not the pleasure of help raise them good luck your kids are lucky to have a dad like you
2007-01-25 06:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go for it and good luck. some mothers forget it's avbout what the children need. A father and a mother.whether they are together or apart
2007-01-25 05:05:35 · answer #8 · answered by stormyweather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck.
2007-01-25 05:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats so sweet shame there isnt more dads out there like u! GOOD LUCK XX
2007-01-25 05:56:34 · answer #10 · answered by BscHons 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋