i work with a lesbian and we have become real close.over the past 12 months we have became even closer.we have kissed and i have touched her all over.i have very strong feelings for her but i have been married for 15years,what does this mean?
2007-01-24 20:00:14 · 25 answers · asked by niketa 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
NO problem enjoy the new fun with her it will be nice experience for a change....!!!!
2007-01-24 20:12:41 · answer #1 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat as you are, married and love women (for at least 17 years)......
I have come to find out that if you really care for the person that you are with, you will try whatever it is in your powers to make the situtation right...
You are just human, and curious...But the sooner you stop and focus on other things the faster this will leave your system..This co-worker of yours will continue to prolong this so called relationship as long as you let it go on..
.And think about it...What does she have to lose? What do you have to lose?
Be strong....
2007-01-26 21:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by pariz_nites69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that! I was with a man for many many years, but I was with women before him. We had a child together and now I have been with my girl for many years. I really do not like the gay, straight, bi LABEL. Really it is just sexuality. Alot of girls/men like the fact that their conquest is married. It adds to the flavor of things. Just be happy if you want to experience a woman it does not mean that you have to leave your husband. Good luck and I would love to know how this turns out. Please do not let it get messy, because someone could get hurt.
2007-01-25 06:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by kim j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to discuss this with your husband, and also dig deep into what you really feel. Do you think you are capable of having a marriage-like, soul-mate-ish relationship with a woman, or are you having these feelings because you are curious or arent getting everything you need from home? Only you can find out the answer to your question, but you need to start by being brutally honest with yourself and your husband.
2007-01-25 04:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
that u like to be with 2 people at the same time.......i would say u should choose and try to be wid 1. do you still love ur hubby and have strong feelings for him and did u do those things to him too? what i really mean is do you love and have strong feelings for your husband???if not, i think u should be honest and tell ur huband that u have been cheating...and b with that girl. but, if u want to salvage the marriage...u need to stop seeing that girl....and yes u are bisexual....unless u were bi-curious...
2007-01-25 04:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by kowalley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your having any relations outside of marriage you need to stop and work on the issues in your marriage that are causing you to go elsewhere for love. if your attracted to this person then maybe you are bi-sexual or simply using a woman because in your mind you don't consider doing that with females to be cheating. Either way though... its still cheating. Consider marriage counceling...
2007-01-25 04:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by Sleepyguy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say, you can be sexually attracted to almost anyone if the timing/atmosphere/emotional state are there. Especially if someone is sort of coming on to you. If you'd rather not leave your husband then cut this short. It will hurt worse the longer it goes on.
2007-01-25 04:07:11 · answer #7 · answered by squealy68 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be, but that is no excuse to cheat on your husband. Maybe you just crave excitement or a close relationship with someone. If it isn't working with your husband, then try to make it work - if it is destined to die, then split up with him. Do you have kids? - you could be paying a high price for a quick thrill.
2007-01-25 04:06:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it means you're bisexual. But you're still cheating on your husband. So deal with it exactly the same way you'd deal with it if this colleague was a man.
2007-01-25 04:25:24 · answer #9 · answered by Angelpaws 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are not getting all the attention you need at home and this woman is able to give you the kind of attention you need and you don't feel like you are cheating because its with the same sex.
2007-01-25 04:04:07 · answer #10 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a husband, then what you doing is wrong. I don't know and I don't care if you'e bisexual or not, but before that, you're married. so you shouldn't be touching and kissing other people.
2007-01-26 06:42:13 · answer #11 · answered by rain ;';';';'; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋