how do you ever get better when you open up and tell your best friend you love her, and she tells you the only way that she loves you is the way a person would love her cousin :'(
and your parents cant help you at all. . . . your sister moved away and you cant talk to her. . . . and your (whats supposed to be your) Best 'Friends' turn their back and wont even talk to you. . . . I just feel so alone. . . . i feel like i will never love anyone again. . . . i gave her my heart, and she ripped it up. . . . . i feel like i'm dead.
i am just here looking for someone to tell me 'it's going to be OK' i just want to know that i'm not alone, i just want some support.
Thanks for listening :]
2007-01-24 19:00:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
sorry, but life's like that!
2007-01-25 00:21:27 · answer #1 · answered by sushobhan 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a very hard time, but I am happy to say you are not alone and it will get better. Although you may feel a little worse first, there is light at the end of the tunnel. I too have been there before. What was my best friend in the world, we did have something very special for years.. and when feelings did come out it was not a right time for him. We made sure to stay friends, but made sure to keep our distance a little as the more you let you self hang on to those feeling the harder it will get. Staying friends is healty, but do make sure you hang out with others and give your self time to heal.. you will meet new people. I know, I am happily married now (to a different guy!)
2007-01-24 19:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am here to tell u that all will be ok. It won't be easy or quick though unfortunately. Most all people have had their heart broke like that. But trust me, the hurt will ease. Make sure u dont isolate yourself. It will hurt more and take longer to heal if u do. Even when u dont feel like it, go somewhere that u like and keep busy socializing. Keeping busy is the best thing. Plus u will meet others, and sure as the sun will rise and fall tomorrow, u will meet another person that will mend that crack and fill your heart with love once more!! Good luck. I feel for u, u r not alone 4 sure.
2007-01-24 19:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by umbay 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, man
You sound exactly like what has happened to me.
well sorry i cannot bring you hope, because my situation still sucks.
The only people i trust are my cousins, who are either on the other side of the country, or all grown up and working all the time.
My friend, Maya, is gorgeous beyond belief. Everything id ever want is in her, but she has a boyfriend, and she honestly loves him.
unrequited love is a bi tch, man. And im sorry. But hopefully in the end you can get over her, or she will love you..thats not my case...
2007-01-25 12:53:26 · answer #4 · answered by andrewoverboard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,i am sorry to hear this.It is always hard to be rejected reguardless of who rejects you.You are going to be ok.I am going to tell you a couple things that i have come through when i had to deal with some similar issues.It was however,a different situation.First of all,it is a that particular time in your life when you find out who your real friends are.Sometimes it may surprise you.You must find some new friends,if they would turn their back on your when you need them most they arent friends.Friends are there through it all.It helps to let out your feelings and your thoughts.Write them out on paper.Over time it does get better.If you truely "loved" her then i suggest you give yourself time to mourn.Basicly,dont jump into a relationship extremely fast.It will be a rebound relationship,and more than likely it wont work out.Just give yourself time to heal,and allow yourself to hurt.It doesnt make you any less of a person to hurt,and to allow yourself to mourn over this.Good luck hun and have a good day.If you need to talk,i can lend an ear just send me an email.
2007-01-25 00:49:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry about your heart break, but you WILL love again and you WILL be happy again. It takes time for a broken hear to heal, especially if it was given to the one you love and she broke it. Then it takes a lot longer to heal.
Don't worry you will love again, even if you don't think so right now.
And you aren't alone in this, many people feel and live your pain as well.
I wish the best for you and I hope your heart heals soon.
-Danny
2007-01-25 04:46:24 · answer #6 · answered by Danny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The most beautiful thing about love, whether you're 14 years old and in it for the first time, or you've been married for 50 years, is that it is a life-long learning process. Having your heart broken is quite possibly the hardest thing to get over in life, but everything will work out for the best as long as you have faith that things will be okay. I'm not saying it will happen overnight, but when you're ready to get over her, you will. I hope things get better quickly for you... who knows? Ms. Right might run into you tomorrow...
2007-01-24 21:05:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jared 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all that ends up happening to every one, you aren't alone. at some point or another you have to be hurt to be able to apreciatte success more. just know that if she wasn't interested in you it couldn't have worked. if she accepted you while not being interested it would've been worse at the end. don't worry, some one out there IS waiting for you and you'll eventually find some one that apreciates you.
welcome :]
2007-01-25 04:23:57 · answer #8 · answered by alpha mutt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT alone. We are all here!!! IT WILL be ok. trust me.
Try to go through some of the questions in here ...trust me it will make you feel a little better and take things off your mind...or maybe tired - so at least you can go to sleep
2007-01-24 19:10:28 · answer #9 · answered by gismo baby 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry...I know how you feel. It hurts when people don't have the same feelings that you have for them. Right now I guess you just have to keep your feelings at bay...that doesn't mean that you have to stop loving her...and it doesn't mean that you should avoid her. Just love her secretly and pray everyday that something good will come of this.
much love. <3
2007-01-25 06:47:13 · answer #10 · answered by purplmonkeez 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I’m sorry for your heartache it took guts admitting this to your friend. You’ll find love again it probably sneak up on you when your least expect it. Is there no one you can talk to about it? You might consider calling one of those teen hotlines.
2007-01-24 19:08:06 · answer #11 · answered by Spread Peace and Love 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋