The first night I slept over at my bf's house, after dating for months, he told me something odd. He said I looked so peaceful in my sleep that he felt it would be a crime to wake me. I asked him how long he was watching me, but he said it was just a glance. It's more than a glance if you are looking and thinking that along with other things. He's also said that I'm like good wine which I don't understand as I have never had a drink in my life. He makes sure I have money even when I don't need it and tell him. He's said he loves me a few times, but not much. He loves my children, that I know for sure. He is concerned about our age difference becuase I'm in my 20's and he's old enough to be my father. Is he serious and what does he mean by this, especially good wine? I am divorced and we met up again after years of being apart while I was still married. He told me "No matter who you marry and if you marry, you will always be mine". Stuff like that. What's up with him?
2007-01-24 18:23:18 · 16 answers · asked by diet7upisgreat4me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm insecure about my body too, but he likes to watch me undress and tells me he loves it. I have a c section scar and am very self conscious about it, but he doens't care. When I lost weight, he told me not to lose too much and grabbed my waist.
2007-01-24 18:27:02 · update #1
Your bf is a romantic and is in love with you. You're a lucky girl; don't mess thngs up. If you don't understand what he means, ask him, not Y!Q.
He probably likes to watch you sleep because he thinks you're beautiful asleep as well as awake. I like to watch my wife sleep too.
2007-01-24 18:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by Husker41 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"You're like a good wine" means "You get better with age." It's a compliment.
As for looking at you while you sleep, it's exactly the kind of thing people do when they're in love; taking a few moments to study the sleeping face of your lover before they wake up is a sweet gesture.
You appear to be dating a sweet, romantic guy -- but you yourself don't seem to be particularly sweet or romantic. You should learn to relax a little bit, and perhaps watch some romantic movies to learn that he's trying to be attentive and caring.
2007-01-24 20:10:39 · answer #2 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ADUH!?!?!?! he is head over heels for you ....cant you take a hint.....marry this guy before it's to late....HE is a catch...I don't know what the good wine thing means but the whole telling not to lose to much weight and saying no matter who you marry and if you marry you will always be mine....means that he loves you every single inch of you and don't forget that (same with the watching you in your sleep ) he loves you
GET MARRIED!!!
2007-01-24 19:17:54 · answer #3 · answered by katey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really appreciates you apparently. And he thinks you're beautiful. The good wine complement was that you're sublte, sophisticated, intoxicating, and not to be taken for granted. When he made the comment about you sleeping, I took that to mean that he just adores you. And he loves your children? This is hard to find...
Okay, just read about the c-scar. I have one too. Don't worry about that scar, it's something to be proud of. If you don't want this guy, I'll take him.
2007-01-24 18:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This man loves you a lot for sure.. He likes you the way you are most importantly. Wine gets better as it gets older. So does this have anything to do with he saying "good wine"? I dun know. But no worries a good man is in love with you. :)
Gd luck!
2007-01-24 18:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a romantic. You are like good wine because the older you get the better you get just like wine. He has a big crush on you.
2007-01-24 18:33:07 · answer #6 · answered by starflower 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think this is strange at all, everybody looks so peaceful and sweet when they are sleeping. Plus, it is always nice to hold someone close.
2016-03-29 01:34:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This man is stuck in a warp-----you need to get away --so gently do it. He sounds like he has issues that are not at all normal, or emotionally stable.The wine statement is a way for him to sound cool and romantic--it is warped--and you sound smart enough not to fall for it. He has a borderline psychosis with an obsessive quality--all weird stuff that rings alarm bells with me. The kids do not need his affections or attention--he just wants you--despite what he says or does now. He has a young girl in bed and he is reliving a part of the past he thinks he missed out on--strange stuff--and a real good reason to rethink and get away from him. Avoid all contact---and be too busy to talk--he knows just what to say to keep your attention and affection---all as phony as a 3 dollar bill. Get going
2007-01-24 18:34:08 · answer #8 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋
i think he dosent love u .he is intrested in ur body than u. i think i wuold be better 4 u to leave him.maintain good relations with ur husband.dont break his trust.what if later ur kids come to know about ur relations with that man who is old enough to be ur father they will hate u for that.stop this.be a perfect wife n a good mother.
best of luck.
2007-01-24 19:27:11 · answer #9 · answered by marwa 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because he adores you...i dont know what he means you are like good wine but it sounds to me like he is just crazy about you because i know what he means when i watch my g/f sleep i just get happy because she looks so peaceful and stuff ya kno
2007-01-24 18:30:14 · answer #10 · answered by xbabyboy4021x 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋