Ther's this girl at work that I like but we worked different shifts, and every time I tried to strike a conversation with her she only vaguely answered me and really said nothing else.So, I loss interest in her,and stopped talking to her unless it was work related. Then I got switched to the same shift as her. Shortly after that, I found out from someone that she may be interested in getting with another girl. Now, my feelings for her have come back. To make matters, she tries to strike up conversations with me now, and also will ome and stand next to me and "accidentally" rub against me. But I don't talk to her unless it's for the job. Everyone else talks to her and kisses her a**, but I don't. This girl is very pretty,has a boyfriend, and a lot of male customers flirt with her. She knows I'm gay but has no idea that I have a crush on her. I' thinking that maybe because I say nothing to her or flirt with her, and since she's bicurious, she wants me now. But I know I would never be #1?
2007-01-24 18:01:59 · 8 answers · asked by indrep33 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I believe that since I'm the only one at work that pays no attention to her, and since she knows I'm gay, she may want to get with me. But she has a man, and she probably just wants me to be her little experiment. But I still can't get over her. Help me.
2007-01-24 18:04:09 · update #1
you will be an apple to tempt her inner curiosity, but dont believe she will stop dating her guy. if she falls for you, it will probably be so that she can get her button licked without the pregnancy. if you do it, keep it in your mind that it may get tricky at work too.
my mantra in life is DONT SCREW THE CREW. things get tricky, even if you have a great time.
2007-01-24 18:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by SAINT G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it. You WILL have to pay certain consequences if you do though, so be ready for it. She may end up playing you for a fool. It will be memorable though, that's for sure.
Don't let her think she's all that and you can't live without her. Keep on being cool. Make HER make the first move.
2007-01-25 02:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by Alias400 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not give it up. Stay focused on your job because you need your job and not the rumors that go with work romance. She treated you like crap so let her keep wondering and find another to experiment with. Stay Strong I know you can do this.
2007-01-25 07:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by kim j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes by all means go for it.
you sound like you know what you want and even if she has some guy it don't mean she could not go for a someone who would treat them like they want to be treated. remember its not what you do in life that you regret but what you did not do.
faint heart never won fair maiden..if she is curious then you should see what develops...its worth the effort
2007-01-25 02:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look at it from the boyfriend's POV: would he be happy to have his girlfriend sleeping with someone else?
Best not to mess with people in relationships, unless they both want you to and are TOTALLY comfortable with one another.
2007-01-25 05:41:50 · answer #5 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! She maybe the worst girl you ever bedded.And she make think you just took her to the moon and back. Tables turn and she may be after you.
2007-01-25 02:16:07 · answer #6 · answered by JUSTIN C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think she just likes being the center of attention.
2007-01-25 02:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
the fact that you put in so much thoughts about her behavior, shows that you are really interested in her.
honestly, i will not get myself involved with her. i'm fragile. once your feelings are deeply involved, its hard to let go....
2007-01-25 02:07:51 · answer #8 · answered by sista! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋