I knew because i heard a conversation, I felt stupid and decieved but I don't know what to do
2007-01-24 17:46:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well i would have to say there is a difference between a boy friend and some one you are just well (friends with benifits) a relationship is what ever the two people settle for. if this is what you want to settle for then just settle for it. the only logical decision is to make a choice. either demand some one stay loyal to just you or put up with it. how ever if you choose to put up with it do not be surpised later if he does this again to you. being gay is not the issue here it has no revelence. it is about you who seems distraught over your partner disappointing you. there is no other way to say this so either put up and shut up or kick him to the side and find some one who is truly commited to you and save yourself the trama and drama. good luck
2007-01-24 17:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by wedjb 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he's dating someone else he is no longer your boyfriend. You are now his 2:00 AM booty call if he makes it home in time. Or maybe you misunderstood the conversation. Maybe he's just donating his time to a much more worthy cause, 'Whore's R Us'
2007-01-25 02:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by older, not wiser 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Second hand gossip is nothing to base your actions on. Confront him and either ditch him or give him your blessing - depending on the type of relationship you want to have with him.
2007-01-25 05:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
move out when he goes out. you deserve better than deception, and you are not just a pillow to bite. move out, move on. dont talk, he will only lie to you. he is putting you at risk.
actually, Ashley (a few posts above) said a pearl of wisdom. so move on.
2007-01-25 02:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by SAINT G 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
break up with him before he breaks up with you.
BUT make sure this other boy isnt some old hetero friend, or maybe a brother, or even maybe a ... therapist or something. .
2007-01-25 02:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by louie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1st off he must not be much of a boyfriend and 2nd thing I would do is to talk to him about it and see where it going from there.
2007-01-25 10:12:18 · answer #6 · answered by gxsilver1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and confront him. Put him on the spot. Ask him what the hell he's doing! Renegotiate your relationship.
2007-01-25 02:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you know the time and date can't you join in ?
2007-01-25 02:06:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
break up with him
and find a man
2007-01-25 02:30:37 · answer #9 · answered by john john 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask your boyfriend and clear the air.
simple.
2007-01-25 02:07:56 · answer #10 · answered by gs04 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋