i told my boyfriend today that im 6 months pregnant but he did not believe me....he said that my stomach isnt big enough. i dont know what to do.im 16 and he is 16
2007-01-24 17:20:04 · 35 answers · asked by im that girl you love to hate 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
advice please......no negative answers!!!! you can keep those to your self, or just tell me to my face
2007-01-24 17:21:08 · update #1
i just found 2 days ago that i am pregnant. i found out when i felt something moving in my stomach so i went to the doctor and they told me......on the other hand i have not told my perants
2007-01-24 17:28:53 · update #2
i made mistake and put 15 sorry
2007-01-25 08:54:03 · update #3
Make him go to the doc with you. If he can't then pee on a stick for him. Or you can show him your ulta sound pics.
2007-01-24 17:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you 15 or 16?
Anyhow since you are pregnant now you might as well tell your parents and then they can tell his parents then maybe he will believe you. It is hard for me to believe that someone could go for 6 months and not know they are pregnant. Take responsibility for what you have done and fess up.
Did the doctor schedule for an ultrasound? If so then take your boyfriend along with you. At 6 months that is when i had my ultrasound and found out the sex of my son. I agree with the answerer poutanaki4u
2007-01-24 18:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you only have one place to be: at home, telling the people who have known you since you were born. The boyfriend may be a great guy but he is just as young as you are. He's too immature to handle this knowledge like an adult and so he's making stupid comments about how you don't look pregnant.
That can't be helped. The only thing that can be helped is you in this situation with your baby. You need to be the person who can be a mother; that means you have to act mature yourself. It's not going to be easy to pull it together; if you can't keep this baby and intend to give it up for adoption, you need advice. You need to talk to a doctor about what your real options are; you need to have at least one parent by your side to hold your hand and help you to try to understand what is happening to you and your body.
Your boyfriend may someday come around to be the strong reliable person he needs to be but you can't wait that long - it may be years.
He will know that you are pregnant. Don't worry about when that will happen; you have bigger things to deal with right now. You need your parents or a close, responsible relative to be there for you.
Whatever you do, please be aware of your own life and your place in the world. Don't panic, try a self-induced abortion, dump the baby or do any of the horrible, criminal things that sometimes show up in the newspaper as sad stories about scared teenaged girls with their newborns. The world is a place that wants to help you. There are thousands of people around you who are parents who once weren't parents and became parents and went through the whole experience in a variety of circumstances. They can offer help and sympathy and guide you through this.
God bless.
2007-01-30 06:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First: You should have been more careful
Second: You are a child, with a life ahead of you that you have messed up. Are you going to mess up the future of the child you are carrying?
If you feel that you have to prove to a 16 year old that you are pregnant then he is not worth it. do you expect two 16 year olds to raise a child responsibly!
You have knocked accepting negative answers, were you actually expecting anyone to be positive?
Try talking to your parents. Just don't not tell anyone and then the child is found in a dumpster from stupidity. It did NOT ask to be made or born to a kid!!!!
2007-01-24 18:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by poutanaki4u 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow...6months and u didnt know...u need to tell your parents ASAP, they will find out soon enough anyway...and as for not being big enough...a 16 year old boy knows nothing about pregnancy....no 2 pregnancy's r the same...i didnt show until i was almost 7 moths pregnant with my 1st, but showed at 4 mths with my second...and im not a heavy person....to prove to him u r pregnant, take him to one of your appointments, it will be good for him...if u just found out, u will probably need an ultrasound very soon, take him to it...nothing will be more convincing than seeing the baby on the screen and the nurse can tell u right there how far along u r...good luck
2007-01-24 18:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by eyesopen16 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can make another Dr.'s appointment, or go to a Planned Parenting Clinic and take your boyfriend with you. That way he can hear the results of the pregnancy test from a professional, and there will be no way for him to deny it. He may just be very scared and not wanting to deal with it because he is in shock. I hope everything works out for you both.
2007-01-28 08:56:45 · answer #6 · answered by calgaryjenhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 6months pregnant and you only found out 2 days ago.
As far as your boyfriend as some have said you took him to the doctor with you or show him the sonogram. Look on the bright side you only have 3 months left.
2007-01-24 19:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by Spread Peace and Love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal for him to react that way because he is a child as are you. You may just want to let your parents know and then tell them about your situation with your boyfriend. they may arrange a meeting with his parents and help you get the whole thing sorted out. everyone makes mistakes and this is a HUGE and SCARY one. Just stay in school, keep your parents close and take care of yourself and your child if he chooses not to be involved. Don't force him, because that will just make your child's life terrible. When your child gets older, he/she will probably want an explanation from his father and then your boyfriend will have to deal with it one way or another.
2007-01-25 01:52:49 · answer #8 · answered by babygyrl_nyc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you know for sure you are pregnant. And i'm assuming you've been to a doctor to get an ultrasound and get prematal care? If you haven't you should go immediately, the baby could be unhealthy and you may not know it.
If he doesn't believe you, take him with you to a doctors appointment. Maybe when you have an ultrasound. If he doesnt want to go, show him the pictures of the ultrasound.
2007-01-24 17:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by beth3988 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
in the title of your question you said that you are 15, but in the body of your question, you said that you are 16, which one is it?? Anywho, you need to dump him, or take a pregnancy test while he is there to witness (you don't have to pee in front of him tho), just show him the results. If he's still acting like a jerk, then dump him, you don't need him in your life anyway. Then seek help. You might need to tell your parents too, cuz if you are pregnant, they will soon find out on their own. good luck, and congratulations!
2007-01-24 20:57:26 · answer #10 · answered by Confused & Young 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u cant expect too many intelligent responses from him he is 16, and i hope u already knew u were pregnant and didnt just find out for yourself too? i hope u see the dr and told ur parents or whoever u reside with. really its not about him now and thats what u have to remember or find out quick. ur gonna be someones mom soon and he may or may not be there but ur always a mom to the baby. get real help if he wants to hang around fine if he doesnt please dont run around after him its time to be responsible for urself and for baby. good luck
2007-01-24 17:26:58 · answer #11 · answered by charli_red1218 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋