My husband and I have been together 3 years and have been married a little over a year. We used to have a great sex life but here recently he has gotten to where he doesn't want sex. He just wants to sit and masterbate on the damn computer. We also are very distant. He doesn't want to talk to me or touch me at all anymore. It's like I'm not even here. I am a romantic type person and I need to feel wanted. I know that he went on a date with a woman in May of 2006 and he told me that if I ever met her that she might say that something happened but the only people who knows is them. To me that is saying that he has cheated. what do you think? Because of all of this I am bored with the relationship and either want my husband or someone who will notice that I am alive. Would you feel the same or different? Please honestly answer.
2007-01-24 17:17:52 · 3 answers · asked by punkins_wife121705 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask him! If you knew he went out, I would have kicked him out. Don't stand for that.
2007-01-25 02:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by sbratt2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say something has gone amok in your marriage.
Have you sought counseling?
Normally I'd suggest you join up with SWAGE, but it's for people who's primary problem is a sex drive imbalance, but it sounds like you've got more going on than just a difference in sex drive/attitudes.
2007-01-25 01:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he went out with that other one he may have fallen in love. must be. if he don't have anything to do with you. time to let him go.find your self a good life. some one that will give you the love that you need
2007-01-25 01:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋