2007-01-24 17:12:02 · 12 answers · asked by angela 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The only people who can answer that question is you and your husband. Try karmasutra.com, tantricsex.com
Get some sex books, you can also get some porn, but don't put too much into that.
2007-01-24 18:30:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will grow and learn together. You will have no past lovers to compare each other to and so will have a much better idea of how it feels to keep yourselves only unto each other.
Sex is a natural act. It will happen beautifully if you can let yourselves relax, explore, ignore any negative thoughts about what you're doing.
Try to be patient with each other, to take things slowly and let your feelings be your guide.
As you learn to please each other it will add to your relationship and to your love. It will help you bond to one another.
Technique is of no worry. Great sex comes from the free self expression of erotic emotions and feelings.
We were created to express our caring for one another in this way. You are married and it was made for you.
Try not to take it too seriously, play, have fun and talk about it. Communication will keep it from becoming a chore, a bore or something that doesn't meet your needs. Enjoy eachother!
2007-01-25 02:13:33 · answer #2 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is based on instinct honey, it doesent matter if you have ever had it before or not..you'll know what to do..and itll be wonderful..its an experience that the two of you will have together and only with each other..you are SOOO LUCKY!!
2007-01-25 01:42:48 · answer #3 · answered by Jessi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
through lots and lots of practice. DOnt set your expectations too high...you both have to learn! Relax,...take your time...you both have your whole lives ahead to have really great sex!!! or get some kama sutra books...though your virgins...so it's not going to be the way you expect...though sex never is.!!! but have fun
2007-01-25 04:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by Starla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You learn together. Be honest with each other and be open to trying new things. It is not a competition about who knows more, it is about connecting with someone physically.
Try to be open and honest, and be comfortable with your husband. Take it slow and just learn from each other.
2007-01-25 01:33:50 · answer #5 · answered by sweetbabyart212 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pratice, practice, practice..lol... Its lots of fun
One suggestion, you need to have sometime to yourself to figure out what you like. Once you figure out what rocks your socks off, show him. Allow him to watch you so he knows where and how to touch you....
watching karma sutra videos is a good resource. Have fun!
2007-01-25 01:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by asgrafxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you will learn together. no experience on either part - how wonderful. neither of you will have anything to compare it to, therefore you won't be missing out on anything. your sex will be great because you have "saved" it for each other. how wonderful for you and your husband.
best of luck in your new life.
2007-01-25 12:05:35 · answer #7 · answered by gypsysoul52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what it Will be great for both of you as neither of you know any different.
2007-01-25 01:28:24 · answer #8 · answered by amber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy some sexy books, or kinky movies, but dont be shy to try different things, explore each other bodies, say what you like and what you dont.
2007-01-25 01:27:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at some good 'Couples Porn.'
2007-01-25 02:11:29 · answer #10 · answered by Larry F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋