Ok, my bf has gotten into the habit of calling me Good Wine. What does that mean? He also told me he loved me for the first time two weeks ago and says it once in a while, but it's like he's testing. What's up with that? I never have to worry about gas becuase he fills my tank all the while knowing I have the money to do so, but he won't listen to me. He is a very considerate and generous lover and just the thought of what he does gets me going. Just the thought. He's also started becoming more open in the bedroom, most likely as the result of a challenge. Don't guys usually give their all the first year or so? When they decide to do more than usual, what's up? We were talking and he says to me "You'll see. Next weekend I'm going to wear you down." I told him he had said that before and was full of it. Long story short, he proved that he wasn't kidding within the next hour. So, why would a guy say and do these things if he's not serious? We are very casual, but still?
2007-01-24 17:05:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
I'm definately into him and very much in love with him. I just don't want to come on too strongly. But he says he knows how I feel. We spend a lot of time together outside of the bed, LOL. When my children are with me the other 60% of the time, he sincerely enjoys having them around. He likes to feed my son and keeps giving in to my 3 year old daughter's tantrums. I tell him not to, but he says she's little and it's cute. Oh, yeah, he's also a LOT older than me. A LOT more.
2007-01-24 17:05:56 · update #1
Sounds like you have a good relationship. From a man's perspective, your bf is definately initiating a REAL LOVE relationship. He is more than just into you. HE LOVES YOU. I would not be surprised if he proposes to you in the next couple of months. To answer your question, theres nothing wrong. I dont see any problems in your story. It really sounds like he genuinely loves you for who you are and is maybe looking to further the relationship. Im happy for ya!
2007-01-24 17:12:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question... He's a LOT older than you lol... It's harder for an older guy to get a much younger woman. I would suggest to ride it out, it sounds like he's a pretty nice guy, and you're both equally into eachother. I'm in a relationship of just over 3 1/2 yrs. now, and I tried the hardest OVERALL during the first year, but after that I had moments that completly overshadowed the first year. Once you get to a higher level of understanding eachother, a LOT of thigs are possible.
Don't let him keep giving into your daughter though... It'll turn her into a spoiled brat later in life *no offense, just a warning*
2007-01-25 01:13:51 · answer #2 · answered by Jon C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he really cares a lot about you. I would believe him when he tells you he loves you. However, you have a different problem, the age difference bothers you. You like the attention, that he's good in bed, that he loves your kids, but you seem to either have a problem or be embarrassed about the age difference. You need to work that out and then decide whether you should give him signals about longterm stuff.
If I'm wrong about the age thing, then you're probably right, he is waiting for a signal from you that you are ready to move into a more permanent stage.
2007-01-25 03:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by Dino 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's going no where, I love Ur name BTW, I'm sooooo flattered that u want to be like me. Thank you for trying to be like me. I knew u were just jealous. U will never be as good as me but u can try!
2007-01-25 04:27:53 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Booh♥ ☺☺☺☺☺ 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋