Yesterday I went shopping with my husband and we ran into an ex of mine I hadn't seen in 2 years.I was so suprised and excited to see him since he had moved to another city a year before that I forgot to introduce my husband and when we went out to lunch I basically ingored my husband in favour of catching up with the ex.I know it was wrong but I was just so excited about seeing my ex again because we ended up being really good friends after the break-up.I apologized to my husband and explained why I reacted that way but he just won't get over it.What is his problem?
2007-01-24 16:44:25 · 10 answers · asked by Madison 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
"ignored my husband in favor of catching up with the ex" How would you feel if he did the same thing to you. You hurt his feelings, and now part of him wonders if you like the ex more than you do him.
-NmD!
2007-01-24 16:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My dear, his problem is you! What a silly little twit you are to think that your ignoring him and forgetting to introduce him to your ex and even being so ballsy as to go have lunch with him, and you give him some half hearted "Gee sorry! Whats YOUR problem?" And you even KNEW while you were doing it that it was wrong? Sheesh, my dear, if I were your husband I would run, not walk to the nearest exit and head for the nearest Family Law lawyer I could find. Sounds like your selfishness, knows no bounds and your feelings of self importance may cost you a dear sweet husband. You embarrasses your hubby by giving the ex all that attention, in essence, saying to the ex "Oh ignore him, he's.....uh.....he's uh.....oh YEAH my husband" That, my dear, was stupid and callous and then as if that weren't enough, you whisked off to lunch with your new best friend ex for lunch where your hubby got some more of the same? My my....and yet he didn't get up and leave your dumb butt sitting there? Give me his number, I'll show him how a lady really behaves, and my oh my, I won't have to try very hard to be better, as your depth for feeling is so limitee I shall surely shine next to the likes of you! Good luck! If you had been your hubby running into an ex gf, I am SO SURE you would have behave badly and made a scene and this wouldn't even be much of a case for you to remove parts of his anatomy. Slice and dice! No mercy here. Come on, you better get to stepping my dear, as you owe hubby not only an apology, but a huge kiss for putting up with your foolishness!
2007-01-25 01:00:57 · answer #2 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just don't understand how he could possibly get upset over something like that. If the love of MY life ran into her ex-lover, and was too excited to see him to even acknowledge my presence, and then ignored me so that she could catch up on old times...I wouldn't be angry at all. I'm sure that if he ran into some hot-looking ex-girlfriend and did the same thing, you wouldn't care at all. This guy's definitely insecure and you need to leave him...for you ex-boyfriend.
2007-01-25 00:54:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sluts are always playing the "I'm just friends with my ex" game.
Meanwhile, they're humiliating their husband behind their back and letting their ex use them like a 5 dollar whore every time they can get away with it.
This doesn't lead to a trusting situation...
2007-01-25 01:15:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand. You made him feel very uncomfortable. How would you like it? But you did apologize, so he should let it go. Don't see or call your ex again in respect to your husband.
2007-01-25 00:53:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to get over it, and let your husband react a little? What you should be worried about is when he doesn't react to your under minding insulting behavior. Let see how you'll be then?
2007-01-25 01:01:20 · answer #6 · answered by Skinz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men have very fragile egos. As far as he is concerned, you just traded him in for your ex.
It won't hurt you a bit to go to him apologize, do it lovingly and with feeling. Reassure him of you feelings for him and vow to consider his feelings more in the future.
2007-01-25 00:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by Ande 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
his problem is that you disrespect him, and that i can understand
because if my man did that to me i would be upset as well. you
should have included him in the conversation.. you dont ingored
him like he doest not exits. that rude. and you dont understand
why he mad. think about it if he has seen his ex and he did that
to you. you would feel the same way.
2007-01-25 01:02:51 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't possibly think he will get over it in 1 day.Give him time that was pretty rude of you.
2007-01-25 01:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by amber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were my wife, you wouldn't be!
2007-01-25 05:26:10 · answer #10 · answered by Bill I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋