We've been having some hard financial times, but we seem to be coming out of the woods, but he's still not interested in sex. He says he still loves me, just has no desire for sex, with me, or anyone else. I feel bad asking, but I have needs, too. He wants me to repect him by not asking him to "put-out." Self-pleasure doesn't satisfy the connection I need with my man, so plz don't suggest it.
2007-01-24 16:14:38 · 12 answers · asked by princessbride84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, something isn't right with this picture now is it? If he doesn't have desire, maybe he should see a doctor. If he won't do it - then maybe you need to look elsewhere.
2007-01-24 16:18:21 · answer #1 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you live together if you have hard financial times together and it could be that he is just stressed out and frustrated. He may feel guilty for having sex if other things aren't right as sex is pleasurable. On the other hand it could be that he is seeing someone else and only wants to have sex with her and is waiting for the right time to leave. Be careful. If you don't get a good answer as men really like sex, think about moving on just make sure you don't cheat on him because he may be looking to put the blame on you so it can be ended.
2007-01-25 00:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by sweetnfoxychick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's getting some on the side and you don't know it. Maybe you've been nagging him about your financial problems and that's turning him off to you? Maybe you've grown fat, don't go to work and mope around all day watching TV?
Those are some possible reasons that he s lost interest in having sex with you.
2007-01-25 00:58:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try to lay off for a while. Think about when your parents would pressure you to do something. "Dont eat cookies before dinner" what would you want to do? Eat cookies. Maybe if you drop it he might come around. If its not on his mind all day maybe he might occasionally think of it and then ask YOU to do it. Good luck b/c I know exactly what you mean by the connection thing.
2007-01-25 00:20:32 · answer #4 · answered by ~Happy~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is new ive always heard men talking how women want do it but Men! this is new maybe he getting it some were else u might not even know! hope it works out wish u the best this is the frist ive ever heard a man not wanting sex he must be really sick!!!!
2007-01-25 00:25:45 · answer #5 · answered by Mississippi Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl - you shouldn't be with someone who is not interested in meeting your needs. Relationships are give and take and he needs to be willing to satisfy you.
2007-01-25 00:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do about it but to accept it or tell
him you can't take it any more and want a divorce..
Your decision as to how long you can wait...
2007-01-25 00:19:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not married, move on. When the man loses it, there ain't much to get it back.
2007-01-25 00:18:00 · answer #8 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever tried self pleasure in front of him, i dont know why but seems to turn guys on. or sexy panties or of that sort.
2007-01-25 00:23:26 · answer #9 · answered by comacati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about what turns him on..
start off by playing with him..
start kissing and take it further..
2007-01-25 00:18:35 · answer #10 · answered by thankkkyouus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋